9 Things You Should Never Put In Or On Your Vagina

Barely a day goes by that we're not confronted by advertisements for vagina-related hygiene products. Sold in packages covered in flowered designs and girly colors, they're presented as goods that can make your vag cleaner than it was yesterday. On the outside, the messages seem innocent enough. Douches, for example, are labeled as simple feminine sanitary products, there to help you take better care of yourself.

But there's more to douches and similar products than just maintaining a nice smell between your legs. So many of today's vag-centered hygiene goods are trying to sell us things that may actually not be good for our vaginas at all. In fact, information about what is and isn't good for your vagina is, for most of us, quite hard to come by. Dr. Melissa Holmes, OBGYN and founder of Girlology.com, told Seventeen that she sees plenty of women who barely have a basic understanding of what they've got down there, let alone how they should be caring for it. So it's no wonder a lot of us have trouble definitively knowing what belongs around and in our vagina, and what doesn't.

It's something we need to talk about, though, because what goes into your vag could potentially have serious consequences. I'm sure you've heard the oddball ER story of a woman admitting herself because she got something strange stuck inside of her. You probably rolled your eyes and thought, That could never be me — I know that a ice cream sundae/ vintage action figure/ souvenir of the Eiffel Tower doesn't belong in there. Yes, you are correct, but that's not the end of it — there's so much more info out there your vag would like to know.

As always, talk to your doctor or a qualified medical professional if you have any pressing questions. In the meantime, there are nine things that should never, ever come into contact with that vagina of yours.
 
1. Douches
There is no circumstance that calls for you cleaning your lady parts with a vaginal douche. Not only does your vagina not need to be "cleaned out" – douches also leave your pH levels out of whack and mess up that perfect, natural mixture of good bacteria in your vag, so you're at a much higher risk of getting a yeast infection if you use them. And there are more serious risks, too: using douches increase your likelihood of contracting pelvic inflammatory disease by a whopping 73 percent.

Even more serious is the possible connection between douching and ectopic pregnancies in women who are pregnant. Some studies suggest that consistent douching might even be linked to lowering fertility.

Your vagina does a really good job at keeping itself clean, but if you feel like she's not in her best shape, address other factors before you reach for the douche. Maybe your underwear is too tight, you're not eating a balanced enough diet, or you haven't been changing your tampon/pad often enough. No matter what your problem is, there's definitely a solution that doesn't involve douches.
 
2. Fruits & Vegetables
Laugh all you want, but fruits and veggies have been used in the act of sex long before we came around — and they still are, even if most people who are into it are scared to admit it. From grapefruits to carrots, there are all kinds of creative ways they can be incorporated in the bedroom. But while this may be funny to talk about, there are some important things to know if you're choosing to get down and dirty with fresh produce.

Dr. Raquel Dardik, Associate Professor Gynecology at NYU Langone Medical Center, told SELF that not only do many fruits and veggies still carry some kind of pesticide on them, but that if you're using them for vaginal penetration, a piece could conceivably break off, get lodged in your vaginal canal and rot away. Yuck. Also, no matter how many times you've scrubbed that organic cucumber, it probably still carries some bacteria that your sweet vagina doesn't need to come into contact with. Those nasties could result in a bacterial imbalance, which leads to a yeast infection. So save the produce for external stimulation.
 
3. Rubber & Plastic Sex Toys
Simply using a dildo that's made of rubber won't hurt your vagina right off the bat. But over time, that squishy sex toy is susceptible to small cuts and other damages, which can eventually lead to microbes making themselves a cozy home in there; they then move from the toy to your jade garden, and you're slammed with an infection.

Plastic is no better. Many of the chemicals found in plastic — particularly trimethhyltin chloride, phenol, and toluene — have been banned from use in the manufacturing of children's toys because they've been dangerously correlated with hormonal changes and birth defects. And there are risks to adults, too: Laura Anne Stuart, owner of Milwaukee's boutique adult store called The Tool Shed, told Bitch Media that her customers have reported severe itching and burning from the cheap sex toys that are made with this material.

So how do you play safely? Instead of going for the cheap toys out there, invest in a phthalate-free toy that is made of silicone, good-quality plastic, or stainless steel. Additionally, make sure you're properly cleaning your sex toys after each use to avoid any bacteria build-up.

Try Nymph Phthalate-Free Vibrator, $29.99, Amazon
 
4. Body Art
Vajazzling isn't highly recommended by any doctors, and for good reason. Dr. Mary Jane Minkin, clinical associate professor of OBGYN at Yale University, told Shape that any body art, including and especially tattoos, generally cause severe irritation in the vaginal region. And the glue and substances used in vajazzling pose a unique threat — as OB/GYN Dr. Suzanne Merrill-Nach told Time, adding glue to freshly waxed skin could create a serious infection risk, by trapping bacteria.

5. Hair Dye
Your pubic hairs are much more sensitive than you might think (way more sensitive than the hair on your head), so dyeing them in the first place isn't a great idea. It's also worth considering that any time you dye your hair, dye drips from the hair onto the skin below, no matter what you do — and the smallest amount of dye on your vulva or in your vagina could result in pain and irritation. So steer clear of pubic hair dyes — your pubes are a lovely color just the way they are.

6. Tea Tree Oil
Tea tree oil is a totally natural product. Therefore it is safe in the vagina, right? Nope. Dr. Dardik says this particular oil doesn't have a neutral pH level (unlike coconut oil and olive oil), so it has the potential to cause painful chemical burns in your vagina. So while it might smell heavenly, keep it far away from your garden down under. You and your partner can find way better substitutes for lube (ahem, coconut oil).Tea tree oil has been identified as an antifungal to yeast, so some say it's good to use in the case of a yeast infection. Apparently, some women will dip a tampon in tea tree oil and insert it before bedtime.But the vag is a very sensitive area, and the risks of irritation when using this method are great; think of the potential burns and extreme discomfort you might feel as a result. Talk to your OBGYN about other alternatives to taking care of a yeast infection.

7. Anything That Has Been In Or Around Your Butt
This includes condoms, sex toys, fingers, penises, toilet paper, etc. When fecal bacteria from your anus climbs into your vag, the pH levels become severely imbalanced, which could easily lead to a urinary tract infection (UTI). No matter what it is, if it's been in your butt, thoroughly wash it before you put it in your vag. Also, we can never be reminded of this enough: wipe front to back when on you're on the toilet bowl.

8. An Electric Toothbrush
Women have been known to use these vaginally for their vibrating pleasure. But while they might do the trick just fine on your clitoris (you know, if you're running super low on options), don't explore what it's like to use an electric toothbrush internally. Electric toothbrushes are household products that weren't made to be inside your vag, and with all the bacteria from your dirty mouth living on them, they could easily cause irritation or, worse, fissures and infections in or on your vag.

9. Oil-Based Lubricants
Dr. Minkin strongly advises that you keep all oil-based lubes — including vaseline — out of the bedroom. They are difficult to wash out of the vagina, and they're usually made of glycerin, which is essentially like glucose/sugar. That means it turns your vag into a breeding ground for bad bacteria, putting you at risk for a yeast infection. To make matters worse, oil and latex don't get along, meaning it could wreck the efficiency of your condom, landing you with an unwanted pregnancy or an STI.

Instead, opt in for silicone- or water-based lubes, which are much easier on your vag and won't interfere with condoms. When in doubt about lube (or anything else), ring up your OBGYN or a nurse who works at the office. They'll be able to give you a solid idea of what's good and what's unworthy of your vagina's time.

Try Sliquid H2O Water-Based Lubricant, $12.75, Amazon
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Ten Top Countries Single Men Must Visit
There are single men who should enjoy the most out of life before they become attached to one person for the rest of their respective lives. There are places around the world to get the most out of living the single live, which requires having some extra money and vacation time saved up. But these are 10 countries who should visit next for the perfect combination of beautiful women and beautiful scenery.

Lithuania
Despite this Baltic state having more men than women in their population, the females from this country are some of the most beautiful in the world. They have a great combination of qualities highlighted in Northern European and Slavic background – i.e. slim, beautiful bodies.

Estonia
There’s something about smaller countries in Europe and having some of the most beautiful women. A majority of women in Estonia have blonde hair and blue eyes. The biggest positive is that there are more women than men in this country; unlike other European countries.

Puerto Rico
There are obviously some amazing sights to see in this island country, but the laid-back, easy going women that are also easy on the eye are known for wanting to date men from foreign countries – that means you. There’s nothing to be nervous about when approaching these kind and beautiful women; they aren’t afraid to talk.

Belarus
Going back to Eastern Europe, Belarus is another country that has more women than men while also having a similar type of woman to Puerto Rico – easy to talk to and aren’t afraid to chat with foreign tourists.

Russia
Most single men here in the United States are infatuated with the ravishing Russians. These women have thin and slender frames highlighted by their rosy cheeks. In fact, the country’s tourism industry makes sure to cater to single men who want to visit these women.

Armenia
This country has gained some popularity since the Kardashian women come from that background. They have more than that one bloodline, though, as the entire Armenia population is filled with plenty of beauties with dark and mysterious eyes.

Ukraine
Despite the recent conflicts splitting the Eastern half of Europe, Ukraine’s capital city in Kiev is filled with plenty of gorgeous women that make up the majority of the population. This provides quite the opportunity to find someone to spend an evening out on the town with.

Georgia
There’s plenty to find if you take a walk down the country’s – not the southern state in the U.S.A. – public streets. Despite their reserved nature, they open up more as you get to know them better.

Bosnia
In many ways, this country is a bit of a hidden gem in the world of tourism. Single men should circle the capital city Sarajevo for beautiful women and the stunning architecture throughout the neighborhoods.

Croatia
It is a very small Balkan nation that is known for their women who love to meet new people. It is a good destination regardless of the time of year since the both the winter and summer climates provide opportunities to meet women.

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Just Goes To Show You, Alcohol Gets People Out Of Their Cloths.

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Drinking BEER could help prevent cancer: hops could effectively ward off breast cancer

express.co.uk

Katrina Turrill 

"Not to mention, help get women out of their panties"!

 

Drinking beer is apparently not all that bad for you

The plant has been linked to hormone levels, with studies showing it gives men ‘man boobs’ and calms down postmenopausal symptoms by boosting estrogen metabolism. 

 
And now new research by experts at the University of Illinois at Chicago has shown that hops could activate chemicals that prevent tumors from developing. 

 
Scientists applied hops extract to two different breast cell lines to see the effect on the cells’ estrogen metabolism. 

 
Slower oestrogen metabolism has been proven to increase the risk of breast cancer. 

 

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Hops have been linked to hormone levels

The researchers found an ingredient in hops - 6-prenylnarigenin - increased the rate of oestrogen metabolism. 

Lead researcher Professor Judy Bolton told Mail Online: “We need to further explore this possibility, but our results suggest that 6-PN could have anti-cancer effects.” 

The compound 6-PN is a potent phytoestrogen found in hops. 
When it’s ingested it brings to oestrogen receptors and then fuels the hormones’ activity. 

 

6-prenylnarigenin found in hops has been found to increase the rate of oestrogen metabolism

 

In previous reports, the estrogenic activity of 6-PN is so high female hop workers have had disruptions in their menstrual cycles. 

The flower has also become a popular treatment for postmenopausal women who suffer hot flushes, night sweating and insomnia as a result of dramatically slowed oestrogen activity.

Professor Bolton and her team found hops would be particularly effective to ward off breast cancer in women undergoing hormone replacement treatment during menopause. 

According to Professor Bolton’s findings hops also contain a similar compound called 8-prenylnarigenin (8-PN), but this is left effective team 6-PN. 

Every year nearly 60,000 people in the UK are diagnosed with breast cancer.

This Is How To Successfully Have Sex With A Small Penis

By Candice Jalili

You get the picture. This girl seems to really like her boyfriend. She wants to make it work. And, just as you would hope a guy wouldn’t leave you because your boobs were too small, we should hope she wouldn’t end things with a guy because he wasn’t well-endowed enough for her.

So she did what any modern person with a question too embarrassing and too niche to ask their friends does, she took her question to Reddit. As you can see by her update, people apparently gave some killer advice.

I took out some of the best snippets here for you to muse over. I even made it super easy and organized for you and organized it by position. I know you guys, I’m the best. OMG, stop gushing. YOU’RE WELCOME.

Try cowgirl.
Cowgirl was BY FAR the most popular suggestion from people across the board. Even if they were suggesting other positions, they seemed to refer back to cowgirl as a trusty staple. So, if you’re looking to play it safe, go for these tips.

 
Try using props.
If you’re not too intimidated by them, you can follow the lead of the people who said that using their own respective props really helped them spruce things up in the bedroom.

Try scissoring… yes, scissoring.
Yeah so… I guess guy/girl scissoring is actually a thing.
Try putting your legs above his shoulders.

If you’ve got the flexibility for it, putting your legs above his shoulders is supposed to do wonders.

Try placing a pillow under your hips.
If you’re more of a fan of having him on top, putting a pillow under your hips should be able to do just the trick.

And there you have it, ladies and gents. A small dick does not have to be the end for your relationship. Try out some of these handy tips and work with what you’ve got. 

Ref. Small Dicks

Why You Should Never Twerk On Live TV

How can this just happen on live tv 😭pic.twitter.com/tIGDZBve4b

— Sensational (@LowkeyMo_) July 13, 2016

62% OF US WOMEN GO BARE DOWN THERE BUT FOR THE WRONG REASONS

“Grooming” is the act of shaving/waxing off pubic hair, and ladies, we know all about it. We’ve been shearing our pubes since we can remember. Some of us like to take a little off, leaving the popular “landing strip,” while most of us like to go fully bare. No matter which way you go, I think it’s safe to say that most, if not all women, hate to have a full fro in between their legs.

I know personally, big or small, I can’t deal with a lot of hair down there. The less hair, the more manageable it is. And don’t get me started on this heat. It’s one thing to sweat, but when your hoo-ha is covered in sweaty hair, that just not hygienic. But some women have another reason for going bare down there.

A new study that was conducted of 3,316 women reports that 62% of the women admit to shaving off all of their pubic hair while 84% admits to some grooming. And while, in the past, research showed that women groom themselves for sex, this study shows that women do it for hygiene.

But that’s not all…

Obstetrician gynecologist and lead author of the study Dr. Tami S. Rowen explains, “Many women think they are dirty and unclean if they haven’t groomed.”

The study looked at women of different races and ages: those who were more prone to grooming were 18 to 34-year-old white women who were well educated. The study didn’t report on their income or marital statuses, but a larger study delved into motivation, sexual behavior and health habits.

Man, 25, Cuts Off Penis Of His Wife’s Lover With Garden Shears, Apologizes Later

There is a horrific report coming out of Japan that details the price Ikki Kotsugai must pay for cutting off the penis of his wife’s lover. Ikki is a 25-year-old former boxer who went to the office of the unnamed 42-year-old who had been sleeping with Kotsugai’s wife. That’s when Ikki punched the attorney, almost rendering him unconscious. Kotsugai then proceeded to use a pair of nearly 8-inch long garden shears to cut off the man’s penis and flush it down the toilet. 

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Filipino women have smallest breasts, study says.

Filipino women were found to have the smallest breast mean size in the world, according to a recent study published in the Journal of Female Health Sciences. Citing the said study, a report by Telegraph UK said the researchers analysed the breast size data of about 400,000 women born in 108 countries, and compared the mean volume and cup size of women. “The study found major differences in the breast size of women born in different countries, with US women found to have a significantly larger mean breast volume than women from other nations, while Filipino women were found to have the smallest,” the report said. Women from the United States, Canada, Ireland, Poland and UK were found to have the biggest breast size in the world, while Malaysia, Bangladesh, Samoa, and Solomon Islands join the Philippines in the bottom.

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Teen Girl Who Allegedly Had Sex With Multiple Partners in School Bathroom Was Once Human Trafficking Victim, Mother Says

The news was shocking: A 15-year-old Florida girl allegedly had sex with multiple partners in a high school bathroom earlier this month, sparking an investigation by police and hundreds of news stories. 

But advocates for the girl have come forward with a troubling explanation – that the girl had previously been a victim of human trafficking.

As news of the incident became international news, the girl's mother contacted NBC 2 to share the girl's alleged tragic history.

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According to the mother, the girl had run away from home when she was 13 and was held captive for nearly 2 years. The mother rescued her daughter with help from Megan Estrem, the founder of Be the Light, an advocacy group for victims of sex slavery.

After her rescue, the girl has been placed in several treatment centers. She had only been a student at South Fort Myers High School for two weeks.

The Disturbing Incident

According to the girl's mother, she had gone to the bathroom to meet up with a boy she liked. He wanted to have sex, so she complied. Then, according to Estrem, word got out and more boys showed up in the bathroom.

But although the girl had multiple partners, her family wants to make it clear that the news stories were overblown. "She did not sleep with 25 boys in the bathroom," Estrem told the news station. "There was only a handful that she did sleep with. In this case, it was more of a spectator sport."

The girl has been pulled from school. According to the school district, 16 other students – many of them student athletes – have been disciplined.
https://www.yahoo.com/news/teen-girl-allegedly-had-sex-212846189.html

According to Women’s Health Magazine, May is International masturbation month. And to commemorate it, they cite a study done by sex toy company We-Vibe on the masturbation habits of adult Americans. One semi-surprising thing We-Vibe’s team of crack scientists learned is that people don’t crank it to celebrities as much as you think, with only 19 percent of women saying they work out at the Y and 33 percent of men saying they Hitchhike to the Moon while thinking about pop stars.


Here is the top 20 celebrity spank list:

1. Jennifer Lopez
2. Carrie Underwood
3. Jennifer Lawrence
4. Jessica Alba
5. Channing Tatum
6. Emma Watson
7. Kim Kardashian
8. Megan Fox
9. Selena Gomez
10. Taylor Swift
11. Ryan Gosling
12. Adam Levine
13. Beyonce
14. Janet Mason
15. Jenna Haze
16. Jennifer Aniston
17. Jensen Ackles
18. Johnny Depp
19. Justin Timberlake
20. Kate Upton

Here are my takeaways:

— For starters, this list exposes what I’ve always said about how women lie when they say what they’re attracted to. Ask any chick what they like in a guy and they’ll mention brains, sense of humor, personality. But look at the six guys on this list. Tatum, Gosling, Levine, some soap opera actor, Depp and Timberlake. All of them handsome. Most of them tall, fit muscular. If what women say is true, this list would be filled with Jonah Hills, John C. Reillys, Louis CKs and Zach Galifinakises. Not that there’s a thing wrong with being attracted to super attractive guys like Channing Tatum. But just own it, the way men do. There’s not a Melissa McCarthy on here because men are comfortable admitting we’re shallow and want to have sex with pretty women.

— Janet Mason and Jenna Haze are porn actresses, which automatically disqualifies them from this list. Of course men Whip Up a Batch to them; that’s their job. Putting them on here is like making a list of celebrities we like to watch play golf and including Jordan Spieth.

— There is nothing on Earth more disposable than the female celebrity sex object. Typically they’ve got the shelf life of a tub of yogurt, so you’ve got to admire any of them with staying power. Lopez, Alba, Beyonce’ and Aniston were filling the socks of teenage boys in the ’90s, reinvented themselves a few times, stayed on top and outlasted a thousand other Flavors of the Month. They’re the Jaromir Jagrs of sex fantasies.

— Emma Watson is lovely and a mature, grown woman. Still. There’s not a man who put her on this list that on some level should feel guilty about doing it to Hermoine Grainger.

— Every time Kim Kardashian makes a list of this sort, I weep for my country.

— I did note that there’s not one blogger, sports radio co-host, book author or stand up comic on the list. I’m sure I just missed the cut.

— One man’s list of the toughest omissions: Scarlet Johannsen, Jessica Biel, Emilia Clarke, Kate Beckinsale, Mila Kunis, Olivia Munn and Sofia Vergara. Feel free to tell me who I missed in the comments section.

Happy International masturbation month, everybody.

http://thornography.weei.com/sports/boston/2016/05/23/study-ranks-celebrities-people-most-masturbate-to/

Britney Spears Sings About Masturbation During the Billboard Music Awards

Britney Spears opened up the Billboard Music Awards on Sunday night in Las Vegas with a 7-minute medley of her greatest hits ... including one all about masturbation!

The princess of pop roared through short versions of "Work Bitch," "Womanizer," "I Love Rock n Roll," "Breathe on Me," "Slave 4 U," "Touch of My Hand," and "Toxic."

http://toofab.com/2016/05/22/britney-spears-touch-of-my-hand-billboard-music-awards/

With lyrics like, "Another day without a lover/The more I come to understand/The touch of my hand," her song choice was a bold one for primetime!

While she didn't sing a lick, instead lip-synching the entire thing, Spears did show off some impressive dance moves ... most notably when she pulled off a backflip mid-song, and followed it up by grinding on some hot backup dancers.

It should be noted almost all of the choreography was taken directly from her "Piece of Me" show at Planet Hollywood, including riding the giant guitar during "I Love Rock 'N' Roll."

So, There's an App That'll Spy On Your Vagina for You...

As owners of vaginas, we can't clearly see what's going on down there without whipping out a hand mirror. So, a new app called Labella is offering to check up on your vag for you, just to make sure everything's running smoothly.

What exactly does this app do? According to a conference paper titled "Interactivity: Looking at the Vagina through Labella" (best conference ever), the app pairs with underwear that contains special markers that can be recognized by a phone camera. In addition to displaying what's going on inside your panties, the app guides you through a 3-D image of a vulva, explaining different parts of your anatomy and even telling you how to do pelvic floor muscle exercises.

Not really sure why you'd need this? Yeah, neither were we. It does seem like a whole lot of trouble to do something a mirror and a few Google searches could probably accomplish.

http://www.glamour.com/story/labella-app-vagina

Why This Man is Wearing a $149 Vagina Costume in Public

An awesome Brooklyn couple is selling vagina costumes to draw attention to women's reproductive rights, Page Six reports.

The duo behind Conceived In Brooklyn is also donating $10 from every costume sold to 50 Cents. Period., which helps ensure that women and girls in marginalized communities have "equitable access to resources and services targeting their mental and reproductive health needs."

The vagina costume is going for $149 and currently has a three-month assembly time, so if you need a jazzy vagina costume by tomorrow morning, you're probably out of luck.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a58884/why-this-couple-is-wearing-a-vagina-costume-out-in-public/

Women are booking professional VAGINA MASSAGING sessions... and it’s got nothing to do with orgasms

A NEW trend has seen women forking out hundreds of pounds for vaginal massages.

Surprisingly, the yoni massage trend isn’t just to do with pleasure, as apparently it can help to reduce stress and aid relaxation.

Although some clients fork out up to £300 in the hope of improving their sex lives, many also pay the price as an escape from everyday tension.

Yoni, which means ‘sacred portal’ in Sanskrit, often involves a combination of caressing and deep breathing therapy.

In some cases, the masseuse may stimulate the intimate area by penetrating it with the finger.

http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/features/7169738/Women-are-booking-professional-VAGINA-MASSAGING-sessions-and-its-got-nothing-to-do-with-orgasms.html

People Are Going Nuts Over Disturbingly Realistic Penis Lipsticks

Judging by those Amazon reviews, the penis lipsticks — made by a company called Mushroom — are actually pretty good quality. The one complaint people seem to have is that they sometimes get squished in transit. And nobody wants a smashed penis.

While they seem like a perfect item for bachelorette parties or similar events, we’re kinda more interested in just whipping these out for everyday use, if only to see the reactions of scandalized passers-by.

But if you’re too afraid of drawing unwanted attention, don’t worry — like any lipstick, we suspect it will lose its shape soon enough. And if it maintains its rigid form for too long, maybe you should call a doctor.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/penis-lipstick_us_5740b505e4b045cc9a712fd9

Doctors perform first U.S. penis transplant

BOSTON — Doctors at Massachusetts General Hospital performed the first U.S. penis transplant, they said Monday, calling it a “landmark procedure.”

Thomas Manning, 64, is recovering well after the 15-hour procedure performed by a team of over 50 surgeons, doctors and nurses, this month, according to the hospital. Manning, of Halifax, Massachusetts, had his penis amputated after he was diagnosed with penile cancer in 2012.

The procedure, also described by the doctors as a “surgical milestone,” is called a gentitourinary vascularized composite allograft, or GUVCA.

It involves “surgically grafting the complex microscopic vascular and neural structures of a donor organ onto the comparable structures of the recipient.”

http://myfox8.com/2016/05/21/doctors-perform-first-u-s-penis-transplant-2/

Game of Thrones finally showed a penis – but it was a cop out

You know I have to agree with the women. 

There should be many more penis exhibitions. It is only fair.

It finally happened. After the briefest of glimpses of male genitals amid near-weekly female nudity, a penis appeared on Game of Thrones. It was only for a second or two but it took up the whole screen – both penis and testicles. One small flash for man, one giant leap for equality. Or is it?

There appears to be a golden rule when it comes to genitals on television. Women’s are sexy; men’s are funny. To see a penis in a sexual – or even just sexy – context on television is a rare thing indeed.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/tv/2016/05/23/game-of-thrones-finally-showed-a-penis--but-it-was-a-cop-out/

Man ejaculated into co-worker’s coffee cup and rubbed penis on her phone

A man has admitted to ejaculating into a co-worker’s coffee cup and rubbing his penis on her phone for years.

Douglas Whaley filmed himself carrying out the ‘extremely disturbing acts’ after he sneaked into the woman’s office when no one was around.

Police found 25 videos of suspected voyeurism following a search of his phone and computer, a court in Canada heard.

Ontario Court Justice Peter West said Whaley also filmed unsuspecting victims in the shower and sneaked into a home and filmed himself ‘masturbating and ejaculating’ into the victim’s underwear.
http://metro.co.uk/2016/05/23/man-ejaculated-into-co-workers-coffee-cup-and-rubbed-penis-on-her-phone-5899856/#ixzz49a0Noayn

The 7 habits of highly self-destructive people

April 11, 2016

The difference between who we are and who we want to be is our habits. That instagram scrolling I do in the morning, yep, it’s a habit. The daily workout, it’s a habit too. For better or worse, our habits shape our lives. The habits that have held me back the most were habits of the mind. My unruly thought-life prevented me from loving people well, from achieving my personal goals, and from being the best version of me I could. When I discovered that thought patterns were actually habits, I began to form new mental habits.

From self study, from reading, and from observing clients, friends, and family, I have come up with 7 habits that appear to be the most self destructive.

THE 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY SELF-DESTRUCTIVE PEOPLE:
*Continue reading only if you promise to do so without being hard on yourself… or others.
 

1. Victim mentality 
 
The victim mentality is a habit that keeps us stuck in blame, negativity, and powerlessness. We all do it from time to time, but making a habit of being a victim will hinder you from being your best and taking control of your life.

The victim mentality in the small things:
“I am late because…”
“I couldn’t get the project done because…”
The victim mentality in the big things:
“The relationship failed because he…”
“My parents didn’t provide me with the love/finances/tools I needed to thrive…”
“The education system failed me because…”

Heard those before? I hear them all the time. They make me sad because they are often rooted in truth. Maybe you weren't provided the love you needed as a child. Maybe you are thousands in school debt. Maybe your spouse left you. Those things are tragic and hard and really sad. They deserve to be dealt with in gentleness and grace. Dealing with them is key.

When you are stuck in the victim mentality, the world will constantly be happening to you. You will blame, become bitter, and be unable to grow. Growth requires taking responsibility.
 

2. Judgement
 
The habit of judgement is a normal, human tendency. We need to make subtle judgements to make good decisions. We naturally notice patterns and use them as intuition. The issue with judgement is that it is often a reflection of an ego unchecked. It is a nasty symptom of other issues like insecurity, fear, and the scarcity mentality.

When you catch yourself making a judgement as yourself:
 
Is it rooted in fear?
Is it just plain hateful?

How can you switch your judgement to something more gentle, like noticing?

You can notice others without making a judgement. You can call a spade a spade without letting your thoughts become negative and clouded. Start to notice your thoughts.

3. Gossip
 
Gossip is like disease.

A good example of this comes from an old favorite song. A friend pointed out that this song had an annoying aspect to it, and that they hated the artist because xy&z. I could never listen to the song again without thinking about her negative words. Although the song wasn’t completely ruined, the negative association made it harder for me to authentically enjoy it. And so it is with gossip. Gossip takes your negative thoughts and infects others with them.
 

4. Negative self talk
 
I’m a firm believer that what you think, you become. If your mind is full of thoughts that don’t serve you, your life will be a life that doesn’t serve you. 

Tip** Start tracking your thoughts. Do this with pen and paper, in the notes on your phone, or even just taking mental note. What are you thinking about? What kind of things do you say to yourself?
 

5. Defensiveness
 
Defensiveness is the habit of living in a fear based mindset. It takes the assumption that others are trying to “get” you and that you must protect yourself.

Defensiveness resists vulnerability, and cannot be seen as weak. It does not admit wrongs or like to be wrong. The habit of defensiveness will make you feel the need to protect yourself, your beliefs, and need to be right to be safe. Instead of being safe, however, it often makes you, and the people in relationship with you, feel alone.

Curious, creative living comes from a place of vulnerability. Related to defensiveness, it comes back to the fear of rejection, or the fear of being wrong. Living creatively is risky business. It takes courage and vulnerability, you must be willing to open yourself up to inspiration. If you are wanting to learn more about being vulnerable, I highly recommend the work of Brene Brown, watch her TED talk here.
 

6. Avoiding emotional responses
 
Avoiding self reflection and emotions will only work for so long. I used to be “happy” because dealing with my fear, anger, or frustration made me feel uncomfortable. Today, I know that experiencing my emotions fully and not judging myself for having them is key. I don’t stay “stuck” in the emotion, but I do allow myself to feel and express it.

This habit is self destructive because it will always come back to bite you in the butt. Those suppressed emotions will bubble up or manifest themselves in your body. They will seem gone for a little while, but you will start to see the bitterness, anger, or annoyance when you talk about others. It will be toxic to your spirit and to your relationships. Allow yourself to feel.
 

7. Jealousy
 
We all have dealt with jealousy from time to time. Jealousy is a sense of lack where we see others in abundance. When jealousy goes unnoticed, it turns into a habit.

If you struggle perpetually with being happy for friends or family members when they succeed, you may be jealous.

If you constantly compare yourself, you may be dealing with a jealousy habit.

9 Things to Stop Believing About Your Vagina

1. The myth: Your vagina naturally smells bad.
2. The myth: Your vagina looks the same for your whole life.
3. The myth: Your labia should look one particular way.
4. The myth: Douching is the only real way to get your vagina really clean.
5. The myth: Your vagina is the whole package down there.
6. The myth: If you see vaginal discharge, something's probably wrong.
7. The myth: Your "cherry pops" after you have sex.
8. The myth: Squirting is the same thing as peeing.
9. The myth: That you can make any woman come from vaginal stimulation alone.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a58049/myths-about-the-vagina-busted/

'Epidemic' of teachers accused of having sex with students

(WXIA) – Two more metro Atlanta teachers have been accused of having sex with students.  So far, only one of the teachers has been arrested. The second arrest could come later, as investigators continue to conduct interviews and analyze possible evidence.

The teacher arrested Monday is at least the 12th teacher in Georgia arrested this school year accused of having a sexual relationship with a student.

Four of the suspects were Gwinnett County teachers.  Gwinnett is the state’s largest school district. The 12 teachers arrested are from both urban and rural school districts.

John Seryak, a retired educator who is now with the organization SESAMEnet.org -- Stop Educator Sexual Abuse Misconduct and Exploitation, says schools and police do not release official statistics, but his group's research, nationwide, compiled a list of 459 teachers arrested in the U.S. for sexual misconduct with students in calendar year 2014, and 496 more arrested last year.

Gun-dealing Alabama teacher ran sex-for-grades scheme

Gun-dealing Alabama teacher ran sex-for-grades scheme!

Ann didn't know anything about her freshman history teacher's checkered past – his convictions for domestic violence and illegal gun sales – when she started hearing rumors about his relationships with female students. 

"He kind of liked to dance around the classroom," she said. "My friends told me to have my boyfriend walk me to his class." Ann, who did not use her real name for this story, said the teacher focused on the girls in the class, flirting and joking during school. 

In December 2013, that teacher, 41-year-old Phillip Smith III, turned his attention to 14-year-old Ann, a freshman at Huffman High School in Birmingham. During a test, he pulled her desk close to his and addressed the class.

Nurse who photographed patient's genitals surrenders license

FULTON, N.Y. --An upstate New York nurse convicted of taking a photo of an unconscious patient's penis with her iPhone last year has surrendered her license,reports CBS affiliate WSTM. Kristen Johnson pleaded guilty to misdemeanor disseminating of unlawful surveillance photos, and as part of a plea deal agreed to give up her license and spend three years on probation. Johnson was the focus of a nine-month investigation after coworkers at Upstate University Hospital told authorities that she sent pictures of two patients via text message. Investigators said Johnson used an iPhone 5 to photograph an incapacitated male patient's genitals. She was originally charged with two counts of second-degree ...

Woman jailed for having sex with partner on bus in front of children

A GIRLFRIEND who had sex with her partner at the back of a packed bus in full view of young passengers has been jailed.

By Vickiie Oliphant

Samantha Truslove was jailed for 28 weeks

Samantha Truslove, 26, had sex with her 37-year-old partner Peter Walker on the back seats as they were too excited to wait to get home.

The court heard she met up with her new boyfriend just hours after he was released from prison on January 6 this year.

Truslove, who has an ASBO, and her partner engaged in the illicit act on a single-decker bus as school children made their way home.

Dudley Magistrates Court heard three children aged just eight and nine witnessed the whole incident and their parents had to divert their attention away from the couple.

Samantha Truslove and her partner Peter Walker have been jailed

Prosecutor Linda Gudgeon said: "It was school leaving time and two eight-year-old boys and a nine-year-old girl saw and had to have their eyes averted.

"One mother said she has had to have a discussion with her child about it several times since."

Ms Truslove, from Dudley, West Midlands, has been jailed for 28 weeks after pleading guilty to outraging public decency.

Walker, also of Dudley, appeared in the dock separately and was jailed for 17 weeks after he also admitted the charge.

Jailing Walker, District Judge Wilkinson told him: "You left prison on January 6 knowing that if you committed an offense you would go back to prison.

The incident occurred on a West Midlands bus similar to this one

"You didn't even wait until you got home to commit an offense.
"You went straight out and consumed alcohol, had sexual intercourse in full sight of all people wondering by including children."

In 2013 Truslove was given an ABSO banning her from the borough of Sandwell, West Midlands, after she and a former partner made neighbor's lives a misery with their drunken behavior.

She was also charged with breaching the order and for being drunk and abusive towards police within the boundaries of where she was not allowed to be. During Thursday's hearing, the court heard Truslove had breached the terms of the ASBO several times since it was imposed three years ago.

The Female Orgasm: Top 8 Most Common Misconceptions

The female orgasm can be a confusing subject for men and women alike, and we are here to finally debunk any of the myths you might have heard. There are tons of misconceptions that people commonly have about sex, and now it’s time to learn the truth. Read on to discover the surprising misunderstandings about the female orgasm!

Number Eight: Women Can’t Get Off from Anal

Number Seven: Everyone Can Get Off from Normal Intercourse

Number Six: Women Don’t Get Sleepy After Orgasms

Number Five: Getting Her Off Means She’s Going to Want to Cuddle

Number Four: You Can’t Have More Than One Female Orgasm

Number Three: Women Won’t Get Off in a One-Night Stand

Number Two: It Takes Forever
Number One: Squirting Isn’t Real

 

Teen says 'teacher gave me oral sex three times after showing me her breasts'

A PUPIL claimed he had oral sex with his teacher three times after she showed him her breasts.
By Margi Murphy / Published 26th March 2016

 

EXPOSURE: Alexandra McClure, 25, is alleged to have struck up a relationship with a 16-year-old

She invited the youngster back to her home after a football match where she performed oral sex on him, according to a police report.

She later did the same at her house and in a car.
McClure has since resigned at Byrnes High School, Duncan, South Carolina after police opened an investigation.

 

ACCUSED: Police have charged McClure with several sexual offenses

While the teen was of legal consent age in the state law dictates that teachers cannot have sex with their pupils.
She has since been charged with three counts of sexual battery.

 

 

 

 

 

 

PREY: Haeli-Nicole had sex with two of her students during a school trip

The probe is the latest after several notorious teacher and pupil sex scandals.

 A math teacher was caught after she romped with a pupil 10 times during a trip to Africa — before moving on to another 17-year-old boy.

This Woman Had the Perfect Response When Told She Couldn't Breastfeed at a Museum

People when are you going to learn. When a woman wants to whip out her "junk" and feed a starving kid, let her. You uptight anal fucks! I say "Free The Twins".

From Cosmopolitan

Emily Locke, a 33-year-old mom from Beaver Falls, Pennsylvania, was taking photos for her sister's wedding at the Western Reserve Historical Society in Cleveland, Ohio this past weekend when she had to take a break to breastfeed her 9-month-old son. In a Facebook post, she explains that she was soon approached by a staff member who told her, "You aren't allowed to do that here."

"I responded that I was actually legally allowed to nurse my child," Locke wrote. "She said it was against the museum policy, and I had to stop. I refused, and she said she would have to get her manager. I said I would be happy to speak with her manager. Moments later, I was approached by a young woman. She said I would have to move, and they had a private area where I could 'do that.' I said I was fine where I was, and told her that legally I could nurse my child where ever I was permitted to be. (I wanted to be near where my family and other two children were posing for the pictures. I truly did not have time to stop the feeding and move to another location even if I wanted to.)"