14 Kinky Sex Tips For Women
FROM SEX POSITIONS TO ORGASM AMPLIFYING MOVES - HERE'S HOW TO INCREASE YOUR PLEASURE TONIGHT...
Oh hello multiple orgasms and mind-blowing sex. Try these top sex tips to make sure your earn sexpert status and give your man (and you of course) a night to remember. Actually, with all of these tips, make that a month to remember...
1. keeping up the girl on top sex position
Be honest now, being the girl on top when it comes to sex is great, but it can get pretty darn tiring. All that bouncing around and thigh ache.
You could work out and build up your stamina, try doing a load of squats and lunges...OR you could try these cheat tricks to give yourself a little break without having to give up the power.
1. Put your hands on his chest
This takes the weight off your legs and gives you a nice dominatrix stance.
2. Slow it down
You don't win any prizes for speed here. Take it down deliberately slow. Give yourself a break and he'll love being teased.
3. Play around
Use your vantage point to have a little play. Take the opportunity to kiss all over his neck and chest. Then reach behind and massage his balls, or further south if he likes it.
4. Let him wander
Whilst you have control - you can give him the chance to enjoy the view. Let his hands wander and enjoy some birds eye foreplay and let that thigh burn subside.
You could work out and build up your stamina, try doing a load of squats and lunges...OR you could try these cheat tricks to give yourself a little break without having to give up the power.
1. Put your hands on his chest
This takes the weight off your legs and gives you a nice dominatrix stance.
2. Slow it down
You don't win any prizes for speed here. Take it down deliberately slow. Give yourself a break and he'll love being teased.
3. Play around
Use your vantage point to have a little play. Take the opportunity to kiss all over his neck and chest. Then reach behind and massage his balls, or further south if he likes it.
4. Let him wander
Whilst you have control - you can give him the chance to enjoy the view. Let his hands wander and enjoy some birds eye foreplay and let that thigh burn subside.
2. try the kinky 'raised triangle' position
UPDATE THE CLASSIC MISSIONARY POSITION FOR EVEN BETTER ORGASMS...
Missionary is pretty much the go-to position for lazy lovers, but there are ways to make this classic sex position a little bit more exciting (and successful) for both you and your partner.
The 'Raised Triangle' position is easy to maneuver and guaranteed to give you more control over the depth and speed of thrusting. Perfect if you're trying to add a bit of dom-sub dynamic into your sex life...
Start in the routine missionary position with him on top and you on the bottom. When you're comfortable ask him to position himself so he's on all fours, then raise your pelvis off the bed (using your elbows to support your weight and your hands to prop-up your lower back) to meet him.
Tell him to stay still while you move up and down with your hips.
The 'Raised Triangle' position is easy to maneuver and guaranteed to give you more control over the depth and speed of thrusting. Perfect if you're trying to add a bit of dom-sub dynamic into your sex life...
Start in the routine missionary position with him on top and you on the bottom. When you're comfortable ask him to position himself so he's on all fours, then raise your pelvis off the bed (using your elbows to support your weight and your hands to prop-up your lower back) to meet him.
Tell him to stay still while you move up and down with your hips.
3. alter his behavior between the sheets (without bruising his ego)
DIRECT HIM TO YOUR HOT SPOTS WITHOUT CHALLENGING HIS ALPHA MALE BRAVADO...
Good sex doesn't happen if you accidentally make him feel rubbish with your 'left-a-bit, right-a-bit' instructions. The trick is to make him up his game without making him feel like a total idiot.
Make this psychological warfare work in your bedroom with these simple top tips...
1. Focus on what he's doing right
Naturally, we all respond better to positive praise rather than criticism, so focus on what he's doing right rather than what he's missing. If you need to tell him to change his tactics between the sheets, start with a complement and finish with a direction. This way he'll feel happy with his performance and even more determined to please.
2. Have an honest conversation about the female anatomy
If he's forgetful about foreplay it might be time to have an honest conversation about your needs. Tell him that it takes at least 20 minutes for a woman to be aroused enough for intercourse and what tricks you'd like him to try. Hopefully, he'll take the hint and put more emphasis on making you feel on your A-game.
3. Give him positive direction
Instead of telling him what to do use your hands, voice or eyes to help him realize what's working and what's not. Move his head or hips to an angle that suits you, moan when he's in the right place and stay silent if he's not or use your eyes to hold his gaze when he's on to a winner. You'll be surprised how effective these simple body language changes can be.
Make this psychological warfare work in your bedroom with these simple top tips...
1. Focus on what he's doing right
Naturally, we all respond better to positive praise rather than criticism, so focus on what he's doing right rather than what he's missing. If you need to tell him to change his tactics between the sheets, start with a complement and finish with a direction. This way he'll feel happy with his performance and even more determined to please.
2. Have an honest conversation about the female anatomy
If he's forgetful about foreplay it might be time to have an honest conversation about your needs. Tell him that it takes at least 20 minutes for a woman to be aroused enough for intercourse and what tricks you'd like him to try. Hopefully, he'll take the hint and put more emphasis on making you feel on your A-game.
3. Give him positive direction
Instead of telling him what to do use your hands, voice or eyes to help him realize what's working and what's not. Move his head or hips to an angle that suits you, moan when he's in the right place and stay silent if he's not or use your eyes to hold his gaze when he's on to a winner. You'll be surprised how effective these simple body language changes can be.
4. 5 'sexts' you need to send your man this week
SPICE THINGS UP WITH A FEW NAUGHTY MESSAGES WHEN HE'S LEAST EXPECTING IT...
As long as you don't accidentally send a kinky text to your mum instead of your man, there's no reason why 'sexting' can't be an exciting part of foreplay.
If you want to make his jaw drop this week, send him one (or all) of these oh so steamy messages...
1. Snap below the shoulders
Sending a naked snap is risky (what if you send it to the wrong person/ he shows it to his mates/ you break-up) but if you're all about the adrenaline rush of danger here's what you need to do. Angle your camera so it shows your body from the shoulders down. With your face out of the shot no one will ever have to know it's you (and you can deny it like crazy should the pic ever go public). A little black dress with just a glimpse of cleavage will be enough temptation to drive him wild.
2. Just lingerie
A brand new lacy underwear set peeking out of an expensive looking bag will make him excited about getting home. Send the snap with a cheeky caption like "Thinking of wearing this for you tonight". He'll definitely want to leave work early.
3. Tempting text
If you're not brave enough to send a picture, simply send a flirty text message. The trick is to be vague instead of embarrassingly descriptive, so stick to "I can't wait for you to get home..." and "Come home and undress me...". His imagination will fill in the blanks.
4. Sinful signs
If you're really in the mood for love be adventurous and send him snaps of a trail of clothes leading to the bedroom or a selection of post-it notes sending him to a candlelit bath. When he arrives home he'll be able to follow the treasure hunt for real.
5. Forbidden places
This one requires a little more courage, but sending him a snap of your suspender-clad legs under your office desk or a selfie in a lingerie changing room should push his buttons. Or try sending him an innocent looking picture of your sofa with the caption "Let's get naked here tonight". The novelty should build excitement for you both.
If you want to make his jaw drop this week, send him one (or all) of these oh so steamy messages...
1. Snap below the shoulders
Sending a naked snap is risky (what if you send it to the wrong person/ he shows it to his mates/ you break-up) but if you're all about the adrenaline rush of danger here's what you need to do. Angle your camera so it shows your body from the shoulders down. With your face out of the shot no one will ever have to know it's you (and you can deny it like crazy should the pic ever go public). A little black dress with just a glimpse of cleavage will be enough temptation to drive him wild.
2. Just lingerie
A brand new lacy underwear set peeking out of an expensive looking bag will make him excited about getting home. Send the snap with a cheeky caption like "Thinking of wearing this for you tonight". He'll definitely want to leave work early.
3. Tempting text
If you're not brave enough to send a picture, simply send a flirty text message. The trick is to be vague instead of embarrassingly descriptive, so stick to "I can't wait for you to get home..." and "Come home and undress me...". His imagination will fill in the blanks.
4. Sinful signs
If you're really in the mood for love be adventurous and send him snaps of a trail of clothes leading to the bedroom or a selection of post-it notes sending him to a candlelit bath. When he arrives home he'll be able to follow the treasure hunt for real.
5. Forbidden places
This one requires a little more courage, but sending him a snap of your suspender-clad legs under your office desk or a selfie in a lingerie changing room should push his buttons. Or try sending him an innocent looking picture of your sofa with the caption "Let's get naked here tonight". The novelty should build excitement for you both.
5. try this emotional intimacy enhancing sex position
TRY GETTING UP CLOSE & PERSONAL WITH THIS SEX POSITION FOR LOVERS…
There are times when a girl needs throw-down and then there's times when you want to feel better connected to your partner during sex. Sorry boys – but it's true. We like to feel close to you. Aren't we awful?!
Try this together sex positions and boost the intimacy and emotion in your sex life.
Hold on
Jump up into your man's arms and wrap your legs around his waist. He doesn't have to be standing, sitting on the edge of the bed will do just fine. Wrap your arms around his neck and then rock backwards and forwards. This position is all about kissing, whispering in his ears and eye contact. Enjoy.
Try this together sex positions and boost the intimacy and emotion in your sex life.
Hold on
Jump up into your man's arms and wrap your legs around his waist. He doesn't have to be standing, sitting on the edge of the bed will do just fine. Wrap your arms around his neck and then rock backwards and forwards. This position is all about kissing, whispering in his ears and eye contact. Enjoy.
6. 3 ways to increase your chances of orgasming together
FOLLOW THESE TIPS TO MAKE SURE YOU CROSS THE FINISH LINE TOGETHER...
1. Boost friction
Since most women tend to come more slowly than men, it's important to slow him down and speed you up! Use strategic foreplay techniques to boost blood flow to your clitoris (including oral sex, pelvic floor exercises, squeezing your legs together and grinding against him) and avoid building too much friction below his belt. It might also be worth introducing a vibrator, to create targeted stimulation for you.
2. Control but maintain his arousal
Limit the amount of rhythmic stimulation you give him, by turning the pressure on and off when you notice he's ready to climax. Steer clear of firm hand movements and use the gentle flat of your tongue to control (but still maintain) his arousal levels. This should give you more time to read his level.
3. Don't stop looking
Face to face positions will allow you to monitor each other's body language and stay in sync Not only will you feel more intimately connected, but you'll be able to whisper in his ear explaining what you need (or what he needs) to meet you on the road to climax.
Since most women tend to come more slowly than men, it's important to slow him down and speed you up! Use strategic foreplay techniques to boost blood flow to your clitoris (including oral sex, pelvic floor exercises, squeezing your legs together and grinding against him) and avoid building too much friction below his belt. It might also be worth introducing a vibrator, to create targeted stimulation for you.
2. Control but maintain his arousal
Limit the amount of rhythmic stimulation you give him, by turning the pressure on and off when you notice he's ready to climax. Steer clear of firm hand movements and use the gentle flat of your tongue to control (but still maintain) his arousal levels. This should give you more time to read his level.
3. Don't stop looking
Face to face positions will allow you to monitor each other's body language and stay in sync Not only will you feel more intimately connected, but you'll be able to whisper in his ear explaining what you need (or what he needs) to meet you on the road to climax.
7. become the teacher & lead the way to a better sex life
IS YOUR MAN MISSING THE MARK? BETTER TAKE HIM BY THE HAND…
So he's lovely, funny, good looking, great in restaurants – but he just keeps missing the mark in bed. Sigh.
If your bedroom antics are giving a Sex and the City dilemma a run for it's money – it might be time to take things into your own hands. Literally.
Good sex doesn't just happen by magic. It all comes down to knowledge. If he doesn't know what to do with his hands, don't lay there is silence – show him.
There is a right way to go about this of course. Telling him off will undoubtedly scare him away (and probably make take a vow of chastity) instead turn it into a sexy educational game.
Take his hand on yours and guide it all over your body. He will love the visuals and you get to show him where he's going wrong. Once he's got the hang of it, let him take the reins and see if he got the message.
If your bedroom antics are giving a Sex and the City dilemma a run for it's money – it might be time to take things into your own hands. Literally.
Good sex doesn't just happen by magic. It all comes down to knowledge. If he doesn't know what to do with his hands, don't lay there is silence – show him.
There is a right way to go about this of course. Telling him off will undoubtedly scare him away (and probably make take a vow of chastity) instead turn it into a sexy educational game.
Take his hand on yours and guide it all over your body. He will love the visuals and you get to show him where he's going wrong. Once he's got the hang of it, let him take the reins and see if he got the message.
8. get hot and heavy with this quirky blow job technique
KNOCK HIS SOCKS OFF WITH SOME HEAVY BREATHING...
If it's his birthday/your anniversary/a special occasion or if you just want to treat him to a wild night of passionate sex, this weird little trick is guaranteed to rock his world.
Cup your hands around his manhood and turn your attention to the exposed areas of skin. When you're very up close and personal, breathe heavily so hot air gets trapped between your hands and his penis. Within a few seconds this will make his whole genital area feel incredibly hot and, coupled with the sensations of your 'usual' bj techniques, should drive him wild.
To really spoil him, use one of your hands to massage the soft patch of skin behind his balls (also known as the perineum). He'll feel like he's died and gone to heaven!
Cup your hands around his manhood and turn your attention to the exposed areas of skin. When you're very up close and personal, breathe heavily so hot air gets trapped between your hands and his penis. Within a few seconds this will make his whole genital area feel incredibly hot and, coupled with the sensations of your 'usual' bj techniques, should drive him wild.
To really spoil him, use one of your hands to massage the soft patch of skin behind his balls (also known as the perineum). He'll feel like he's died and gone to heaven!
9. trace his nerves to make him tingle
DON'T IGNORE THE SENSITIVE SPOTS AT THE TOP OF HIS THIGHS IN THE BEDROOM...
Did you know that one of the most explosive nerves in his body is located right at the top of his inner thigh?
Including this area when you go below the belt should make oral sex even more exciting for him (and probably slightly nicer for you) so here's how to give it a go...
Start by trailing a finger from the middle of his inner thigh towards his groin, before tickling his skin back to the starting position.
Clock his reaction (you never know he might not like all this thigh action!) before gently blowing on his skin all the way up to the top of his leg. Follow this with firm kisses and/or oral sex.
He'll never know what hit him!
Including this area when you go below the belt should make oral sex even more exciting for him (and probably slightly nicer for you) so here's how to give it a go...
Start by trailing a finger from the middle of his inner thigh towards his groin, before tickling his skin back to the starting position.
Clock his reaction (you never know he might not like all this thigh action!) before gently blowing on his skin all the way up to the top of his leg. Follow this with firm kisses and/or oral sex.
He'll never know what hit him!
10. the 20 minute orgasm (well, sort of)
GIVING YOURSELF A BREAK WILL HELP MAKE THOSE TOE CURLING MOMENTS A LITTLE EASIER…
Women put too much pressure on themselves. Whether it's to look good, be better at their careers or just to orgasm faster!
One of the roadblocks on the path to hitting the big 'O' is over thinking. As soon as women start to question why their orgasm is taking it's sweet time to get there, especially if their partner is working extra hard to make it happen, it inevitably never does.
Part of the reason is the more you concentrate, the less turned on you become, and in response the body produces less natural lubricant making the whole thing harder to achieve.
But did you know, it takes the average man five to ten minutes to orgasm. It takes the average women ten to 20 minutes to get her climax.
Go figure.
So make the resolution to enjoy every one of those twenty minutes! Embrace it, relax, let your mind wander and know that your orgasm is on it's way.
Well they say the best things come to those that wait…
One of the roadblocks on the path to hitting the big 'O' is over thinking. As soon as women start to question why their orgasm is taking it's sweet time to get there, especially if their partner is working extra hard to make it happen, it inevitably never does.
Part of the reason is the more you concentrate, the less turned on you become, and in response the body produces less natural lubricant making the whole thing harder to achieve.
But did you know, it takes the average man five to ten minutes to orgasm. It takes the average women ten to 20 minutes to get her climax.
Go figure.
So make the resolution to enjoy every one of those twenty minutes! Embrace it, relax, let your mind wander and know that your orgasm is on it's way.
Well they say the best things come to those that wait…
11. how to have secret sex in your parents house
IT'S A TABOO SUBJECT, BUT IT REALLY IS POSSIBLE TO GET BUSY ON THE SLY...
It's not easy to find the time or the privacy to have sex in the house you grew up in, but when the mood takes you shouldn't you at least give it a good try? Here are a few ways to enjoy the experience without waking anyone up...
1. Experience silent sex
Being vocal in the bedroom is fun, but when your parents are sleeping in the next room (eewww gross) silence is absolutely essential. Turn it into a game and find new and creative ways to communicate. You'll find you look into each others' eyes more and you'll probably use more hand movements to direct your partner. Well, that's one way to take the awkwardness out of 'left a bit, right a bit' situations!
2. Turn up the volume
Put on some loud music of ensure there's a noisy action movie playing in the next room. Sometimes a distraction is essential, especially if you feel the mood take you in the middle of the afternoon. The novelty and danger of the whole situation should tip you over the edge.
3. Have sex in weird places
Sneak off to the garden shed, the garage or the downstairs loo for a bit of action. Part of the excitement of having sex in your parents house is that it's taboo and forbidden, so why not up the ante with a weird sex location? Plus, you're less likely to be discovered in these places.
4. Stick to side by side
This should be your go to position - even if someone bursts in you'll just look like you're spooning after a heavy night's sleep. Oh and don't forget to keep your clothes on above the waist. No one will think your having sex is he's got a jumper on and you're wearing a nightie!
1. Experience silent sex
Being vocal in the bedroom is fun, but when your parents are sleeping in the next room (eewww gross) silence is absolutely essential. Turn it into a game and find new and creative ways to communicate. You'll find you look into each others' eyes more and you'll probably use more hand movements to direct your partner. Well, that's one way to take the awkwardness out of 'left a bit, right a bit' situations!
2. Turn up the volume
Put on some loud music of ensure there's a noisy action movie playing in the next room. Sometimes a distraction is essential, especially if you feel the mood take you in the middle of the afternoon. The novelty and danger of the whole situation should tip you over the edge.
3. Have sex in weird places
Sneak off to the garden shed, the garage or the downstairs loo for a bit of action. Part of the excitement of having sex in your parents house is that it's taboo and forbidden, so why not up the ante with a weird sex location? Plus, you're less likely to be discovered in these places.
4. Stick to side by side
This should be your go to position - even if someone bursts in you'll just look like you're spooning after a heavy night's sleep. Oh and don't forget to keep your clothes on above the waist. No one will think your having sex is he's got a jumper on and you're wearing a nightie!
12. ramp up missionary position orgasms
BOOST THE ORGASM POTENTIAL OF THE MISSIONARY POSITION WITH THIS SLIGHT MODIFICATION…
Sexperts are always slamming the missionary position as boring, but we think it's about time this classic move got a bit of slack. So we've given the sex position an orgasm-boosting makeover to put it back on your favourites list.
When you're in position, pop a pillow under your bum to raise your hips. Then if you're feeling limber, lift your legs up and back towards your shoulders – your feet should be sticking upwards from his ears.
The position allows for deeper penetration, but make sure when he thrusts in – he tilts his pelvis upwards too as this motion will bring him into direct contact with your clitoris and allow for a bit of G-spot stimulation.
When you're in position, pop a pillow under your bum to raise your hips. Then if you're feeling limber, lift your legs up and back towards your shoulders – your feet should be sticking upwards from his ears.
The position allows for deeper penetration, but make sure when he thrusts in – he tilts his pelvis upwards too as this motion will bring him into direct contact with your clitoris and allow for a bit of G-spot stimulation.
13. ladies, limber up for better sex
WELL, YOU WOULDN'T GO FOR A RUN WITHOUT STRETCHING NOW WOULD YOU?
Treat those bedroom romps like a gym workout and you will be in business for the best sex ever. Take a couple of minutes before you jump in the sack to stretch out your groin muscles for improved flexibility and to avoid any unwanted sex-sprains.
Lay down on the floor with your feet together and knees bent. Now pull your heels back towards your pelvis. Then slowly drop your knees outwards towards the floor in opposite directions. If you need to give them a helping hand, a little push on the inner thigh will widen the stretch.
Take it as far as you can and then hold for 30 seconds. This will loosen your groin muscles and release any tension in your pelvis.
Now the real workout can begin…
Lay down on the floor with your feet together and knees bent. Now pull your heels back towards your pelvis. Then slowly drop your knees outwards towards the floor in opposite directions. If you need to give them a helping hand, a little push on the inner thigh will widen the stretch.
Take it as far as you can and then hold for 30 seconds. This will loosen your groin muscles and release any tension in your pelvis.
Now the real workout can begin…
14. how to feel sexy (when you feel anything but!)
HAVING A FAT DAY? DON'T RULE OUT SEX COMPLETELY…
We all have those days when you'd rather be in a baggy t-shirt and your pj bottoms than prancing about naked. But don't let a bout of low-esteem get in the way of your sex life. With these simple moves, you'll be thinking about your mind-blowing orgasm and not what your thighs look like in no time...
1. Mood lighting
Turning the lights off is not always the answer. Create a bit of complimentary mood lighting instead. Dim the lights or better still, put some candles on the floor (at a safe distance from any of the action obviously) - being lit from below is most flattering.
2. Dress the part
While we're sure he loves seeing you in that fleecy onesie – opt for something a little bit sexier, but still keep yourself covered up.
That slinky nightie you've been saving, your favourite silk cami and those impractical knickers – and then instruct him in your best sultry voice that he is not to remove your clothes. Turning it into a sex game is much hotter than yelling 'don't look at me!' in the throws of passion.
3. Reverse it
The most flattering sex position is rear entry. He gets a great view of your behind, your waist and thighs look tiny and you get to keep your wobbly bits safely out of view. Everyone's happy.
1. Mood lighting
Turning the lights off is not always the answer. Create a bit of complimentary mood lighting instead. Dim the lights or better still, put some candles on the floor (at a safe distance from any of the action obviously) - being lit from below is most flattering.
2. Dress the part
While we're sure he loves seeing you in that fleecy onesie – opt for something a little bit sexier, but still keep yourself covered up.
That slinky nightie you've been saving, your favourite silk cami and those impractical knickers – and then instruct him in your best sultry voice that he is not to remove your clothes. Turning it into a sex game is much hotter than yelling 'don't look at me!' in the throws of passion.
3. Reverse it
The most flattering sex position is rear entry. He gets a great view of your behind, your waist and thighs look tiny and you get to keep your wobbly bits safely out of view. Everyone's happy.
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