Oral Sex
8 Ways to Spice Up Oral Sex
- One Up - This little tweak to traditional on-your-back oral gives you even more control. Lie down at the edge of the bed, and have your guy kneel on the floor in front of you. Raise one leg up, and support it by wrapping your hands around your hamstring. This raises your hip just a bit so you can add some movement to aid in his stroking.
- Closed for Business - If direct clitoral stimulation is too much for you, try this tactic: Lie back on the bed with your guy laying or kneeling in front of you. Close your legs during oral, and have him apply light pressure on your pubic mound while he rubs his tongue on the area around the clitoris. You might find that this indirect stimulation does the trick.
- The Elevator - This no-bed-required move is great for a quickie. Start out by kneeling in front of your guy as he’s standing. Cover your teeth with your lips, and slowly move your lips up and down on his shaft, alternating speeds. Stop to glide your tongue over and around his head, and glance up every once in a while. Bonus: Lean a mirror against a wall to the side of his body so he can enjoy the action from more than one angle.
- Heir to the Throne - There’s something about oral in a chair that implies a need-you-right-now hotness. Sit with your legs spread and your guy kneeling in front of you. This one really puts him in control, but feel free to suggest the technique you like best. Bonus: Opt for a swivel chair so he can turn it left and right mid-action.
- The Face Sitter - This is a comfortable position for you and a super-erotic one for him. Lie back on the bed with a pillow behind your head, then have him straddle your shoulders. He can support himself by holding the bed’s headboard or a wall. Grab his hips to put yourself in control.
- David Copperfield - As the name suggests, this move might make you think you’re in bed with a magician. Lay back with a pillow under your hips so your pelvis is tilted up. Bend your knees, and place your feet on his shoulder blades. Here’s where the magic comes in: While your guy is doing his thing, have him use his hands to push gently upward on your abdomen away from the pubic bone to help bring the clitoris out from beneath the hood.
- Cowgirl 69 - Consider this the absolute win-win when it comes to oral. Have your guy lie on the bed with you on top, facing the opposite direction. While you’re on top in 69, you can control the intensity of oral stimulation on your clitoris by lifting or pressing your pelvis. When you’re ready for a change, roll over to side-by-side 69.
- Hovering Butterfly - Get ready for total control. While your guy is lying down, straddle him by placing your knees at his ears. Hold onto a wall or headboard for support. For an added bonus, have him hold his tongue firm as you gyrate your hips, pressing your clitoris against it in whichever way feels best.
Oral Sex Tips - How To Give The
Best Blow Jobs
Oral sex: how to give the best blow jobs
Going down on, giving head, sucking off, mouth f***, there are plenty of
ways to describe the act of oral sex, but they're all talking about the
same thing - sexual pleasure, down there, using your mouth.
What is oral sex (blow job)?
To give the Latin name, fellatio, (aka blow job), is an oral sex act which involves stimulating the penis using the tongue, lips and mouth. Most men are fans of the blow job as it gives him intense sexual sensations and can bring him to a pretty intense orgasm.
How to give oral sex:
As a rule, oral sex should mimic the movements of full sex penetration and while it's called a blow job - there's no blowing involved! Don't make that rookie mistake!
Instead, blow like a pro and take his penis into your mouth, (with
plenty of saliva) and suck up and down his shaft mimicking the thrusting
motion of penetration, taking care not to graze his 'friend' with your
teeth. Remember when it comes to sucking him off, teeth are never
welcome.
One thing men don’t like is mechanical oral sex, performed without
passion. He wants to know that you're enjoying it as much as him, so
vary your rhythm, speed and intensity. Try gently caressing his
testicles and then try upping the pace for a few strokes. Take him to
the edge then bring him back from the brink to get him revved up and
eager for more.
Lick, suck and play with his erect penis using your tongue don't be shy
to make eye contact too. To make sure you’re hitting the spot, watch and
listen to his reactions. Ask him what he likes. All men are different
and he'll be thrilled that you want to know exactly how to please him.
Giving good head isn't rocket science, but there are some top tips,
tried and tested, that will help make your next blow job one to
remember. Read on for the sofeminine secrets on how to be a 'head'
mistress. Oh yeah.
Oral sex tip #1: Sensitive areas
To make him go weak at the knees, when giving him a blow job linger on
the parts of his anatomy that are particularly sensitive - the tip of
his penis, his testicles and his perineum - the secret spot between the
testicles and the anus.
He’ll also appreciate lots of attention around the shaft whether you use
your mouth, tongue or hands, some good shaft action will get him closer
to blowing his load.
Oral sex tip #2: Use your hands
If your partner's penis is on the large side you may find it more than a
mouthful. Blow jobs can be difficult to perform on bigger penises but
don't worry - you're not expected to be able to take it all the way
down.
A simple trick to blow job success is to use your hand and your mouth together - which will feel good for any size of penis.
Use an edible lubricant or
your saliva to get things going moving and move your hand from the
shaft (bottom) to the tip until he's really hard. Then add your mouth,
taking him in as your hand moves up and down.
Oral sex tip #3: Involving other areas
Oral sex is about using your mouth to maximum effect, on his penis, and other areas too.
Try gently (very gently!) sucking on his testicles one at a time.
Lightly kiss his inner thighs. Lick his super sensitive perineum (along
the line between his anus and testicles). All added together he'll be
totally under your control - a total turn on for you too!
Oral sex tip #4: Hot and cold
Blow jobs and oral sex should be fun so if you want to spice it up try playing with temperature and sensations.
Temperature play can be fun, so try taking a mouthful of warm tea, swill
it around your mouth and swallow then take your man's penis into your
mouth for 20 seconds and suck. Then take a mouth full of cold water and
do the same. The difference in hot and cold will feel fabulous for him.
You can also try champagne, fizzy water, mint, ice cubes and ice cream for extra unexpected sensations.
Oral sex tip #5: Get saucy
Some women can't bare the taste of their man in their mouths which makes oral sex rather less enjoyable.
While performing a blow job you can add chocolate body paint, squirty
cream or ice cream then spend time licking and sucking it off, or try a
flavoured lubricant - Durex do a good selection.
Oral sex tip #6: Gagging
Gagging during oral sex isn't something to be embarrassed about. He'll
think you're gagging because he's so massive and if you actually tell
him that then you'll give him one enormous ego boost that he'll love you
for.
If you find yourself gagging often then try using your hands as well - see oral sex tip 2!
Oral sex tip #7: Ejaculation
When he starts to come, there's the question of whether to swallow or not. You don’t have to: each to their own.
If you find the thought of sperm in your mouth revolting, don’t force
yourself to swallow: it won’t make it any less pleasurable for him. Just
make sure he withdraws in time.
Otherwise let him come in your mouth and then spit it out. Have tissues on hand to either spit into or mop up any spillage.
Some men like to come onto breasts, bellies or other parts of their
partner but make sure you've agreed to this first - it's entirely your
choice.
Of course you can swallow too - which brings us onto the subject of taste...
Oral sex tip #8: Ejaculation - improving the taste
Some foods and drinks do have an effect on the taste of your guys load.
Alcohol, caffeine, recreational drugs and nicotine all add a tang to your man's semen and make it taste like a bad night out. The day after a binge it's probably best to avoid blow jobs altogether!
Vegetarians have better tasting sperm but too much cauliflower, broccoli
and asparagus can have a seriously negative impact - so get your guy to
limit these foods if you're planning to swallow after an oral sex
session.
Some foods to avoid are obvious - garlic and onions make our breath
smell - and add a funky taste to our guy's semen too thanks to their
high sulphur content.
If you want to sweeten his spunk try getting your man to eat plenty of fruits that are high in natural sugars - pineapple juice is a winner. Also sweet and fragrant foods and herbs like parsley, wheatgrass, celery, cinnamon, cardamom, peppermint and lemon can all make for a sweet oral sex session.
If you want to sweeten his spunk try getting your man to eat plenty of fruits that are high in natural sugars - pineapple juice is a winner. Also sweet and fragrant foods and herbs like parsley, wheatgrass, celery, cinnamon, cardamom, peppermint and lemon can all make for a sweet oral sex session.
Oral sex tip #9: Sexually transmitted diseases
When giving (or receiving) oral sex, be aware that hepatitis B, fungal
infections and other STDs can be passed on via oral sex and blow jobs.
The risk of HIV transmission from performing oral sex is low but it can
still happen. If you’re unsure of your partner's sexual past, use a
condom.
Mouth infections can also be transmitted via oral sex and remember never
to give head when you have a cold sore unless you want to give him
herpes!
Oral sex tip #10: Overcoming reservations
Some women are repulsed by oral sex and blow jobs and don’t like the
idea of putting their partner’s penis in their mouth, it's not for
everyone - the idea is to both get turned on from the experience.
If it makes you feel more up for it try having a shower together as part of foreplay so that you can nice and clean before you get dirty.
If you still don’t feel comfortable with giving oral sex, remember
there’s no point forcing yourself: he’ll feel it if you’re not happy and
won’t get as much pleasure out of it.
The goal is shared pleasure and excitement. Talk to him about it and you
might find you change your mind in time. Blow jobs should be a pleasure
for both of you, knowing you're turning him on is a turn on in itself.
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Oral sex can produce intense orgasms. Find out how the mouth can be a complex, effective and sensual sexual tool…
The Mouth
The whole mouth can be used during sex, so don’t underestimate the oral cavity! Take your partner’s earlobes,lips, skin, testicles and penis into your mouth. The hot, wet, softness will be very stimulating.
The Tongue
Along with our fingers, the tongue is the most sensitive and flexible part of our bodies, which is why it is perfect for oral stimulation. It is also the body’s taste receptor, which means you can both give and receive pleasure at once, as you taste your partner’s body.
Along with our fingers, the tongue is the most sensitive and flexible part of our bodies, which is why it is perfect for oral stimulation. It is also the body’s taste receptor, which means you can both give and receive pleasure at once, as you taste your partner’s body.
The Lips
The lips separate the inside of the body from the outside world, so can be a very intimate way of showing affection. From a peck on the cheek to a deep French kiss, they play an active part in lovemaking. Not only can they can suck, blow and caress, but they are also receptors to touch. The meeting of two mouths is the perfect symbol, symmetry and equal pleasure between two people.
The lips separate the inside of the body from the outside world, so can be a very intimate way of showing affection. From a peck on the cheek to a deep French kiss, they play an active part in lovemaking. Not only can they can suck, blow and caress, but they are also receptors to touch. The meeting of two mouths is the perfect symbol, symmetry and equal pleasure between two people.
The Teeth
In the middle of the soft, wet space of the mouth, the teeth are like
rocks in the ocean. And it’s precisely this difference which makes them
sexually useful. Use them gently to bite and nibble, but if you’re on
the receiving end, make sure you trust your partner! Resist the temptation to sink your gnashers into his soft flesh however…
Saliva
Saliva is the obvious lubricant for your kisses, and comes in handy during oral sex too. Just like the smell of a tasty dish, sexual excitement stimulates the saliva glands, so try using it as a natural lubricant during penetration.
Saliva is the obvious lubricant for your kisses, and comes in handy during oral sex too. Just like the smell of a tasty dish, sexual excitement stimulates the saliva glands, so try using it as a natural lubricant during penetration.
Taste
Taste your partner through his kisses. Does he taste salty? Sweet? Peppery? Bitter? Smell and taste are our two most important senses, especially when it comes to oral sex. Find out whether he’s good enough to eat as you get to know him inside and out.
Taste your partner through his kisses. Does he taste salty? Sweet? Peppery? Bitter? Smell and taste are our two most important senses, especially when it comes to oral sex. Find out whether he’s good enough to eat as you get to know him inside and out.
Smell
This is the most primitive sense. Oral sex means you really get to know the other person’s smell and when you love someone, you usually love their particular scent as well.
This is the most primitive sense. Oral sex means you really get to know the other person’s smell and when you love someone, you usually love their particular scent as well.
Breathing through your mouth helps you to smell, as well as giving you another way to tease your lover by blowing feather-light breaths.
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The Perineum
Behind the vulva, between the vagina and the anus is an area which is all too often ignored during sex. Don’t deprive your perineum, it loves to be stroked and touched too! It’s less sensitive than the clitoris, but some women find that the area close to the anus is extremely receptive.
Inner Thighs
Women prefer centrifugal caresses, which means they like them to start
at the edges of the body and work into the centre. Starting at the inner
thighs before finally touching the genitals is a great way to raise
your pleasure levels, so ask your partner to kiss, lick and nibble his
way around your inner thighs to your vulva, for maximum stimulation. Of
course, if he’s a foreplay expert, he’ll know this already!
The Boobies
Sucking the nipples and stimulating the breasts
is extremely pleasurable for most women. Those who claim not to feel
anything probably haven’t spent enough time with their partners
exploring their bodies. Sucking the nipples produces a orgasm hormone called ocytocin, which makes you feel good and sometimes an ejaculation of milk from breastfeeding women. Take the time to get to know your breasts with your partner.
Vaginal Opening
A mouth can kiss the vaginal opening and a tongue can slip a couple of
centimetres inside. You might not think this is enough for sexual
pleasure, but don’t be so sure! The vagina’s most sensitive areas are actually located just at the opening and don’t forget that the vagina itself is very flexible and can open and close to draw in or keep out. A whole world of possibilities…
The Vulval Lips
They contain erectile tissue which swells when you are stimulated, to
form a funnel round the vaginal opening to support an erect penis during
penetration. Often neglected, they are sexual organs like any other and can produce lots of pleasure. Don’t pass them over!
The Clit
This
is the only organ in the human body which exists purely for pleasure,
making it ideal for stimulation of all kinds, which can even produce an orgasm.
It is extremely sensitive and produces different sensations in every
woman. Some like strong pressure, while others are so sensitive that
they prefer indirect stimulation rather than direct contact. A
little-known fact is that the root of the clitoris runs in front of the pubic bone, so pressure on this area can sometimes lead to orgasm.
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Preparation For Oral Sex
Taking
a moment to clean up before oral sex is always a good idea as it can
prevent Urinary Tract Infections and make things more carefree once
done. The following are some quick tips on how to go about doing this-
Clean Your Hands
You will want to wash hands well to make sure that you do not introduce harmful bacteria into the vagina or introduce it into the urethra. This applies to both the giver and receiver as often women will play with themselves while receiving oral stimulation and they too should have clean hands.
You will want to wash hands well to make sure that you do not introduce harmful bacteria into the vagina or introduce it into the urethra. This applies to both the giver and receiver as often women will play with themselves while receiving oral stimulation and they too should have clean hands.
Avoiding A Urinary Tract Infection (UTI)
Unfortunately, there can be some negative side affects to making contact with the urethra.The urethra is sensitive and is easily irritated. It is fairly easy to expose the urethra to bacteria that is harmful and thus often results in a UTI. The activity that can cause a UTI can be sexual or non sexual. Any sexual activity that makes contact with the urethra whether it is from fingers, a sex toy, the mouth, the penis, etc. can result in painful urination and infection. To help prevent infections and reduce the chances of irritation, a woman should drink lots of water and urinate just before and right after urethral stimulation. Taking precautions such as washing whatever is going to come into contact with the urethra beforehand may assist in preventing such an infection. If an infection occurs it is easily treated with antibiotics. If left untreated the infection can become more serious and spread into the kidneys.
Unfortunately, there can be some negative side affects to making contact with the urethra.The urethra is sensitive and is easily irritated. It is fairly easy to expose the urethra to bacteria that is harmful and thus often results in a UTI. The activity that can cause a UTI can be sexual or non sexual. Any sexual activity that makes contact with the urethra whether it is from fingers, a sex toy, the mouth, the penis, etc. can result in painful urination and infection. To help prevent infections and reduce the chances of irritation, a woman should drink lots of water and urinate just before and right after urethral stimulation. Taking precautions such as washing whatever is going to come into contact with the urethra beforehand may assist in preventing such an infection. If an infection occurs it is easily treated with antibiotics. If left untreated the infection can become more serious and spread into the kidneys.
Shorten Finger Nails
Trim fingernails before going down as using fingers is common and this is done, so as to not cause pain or tears.
Trim fingernails before going down as using fingers is common and this is done, so as to not cause pain or tears.
Atmosphere
Creating a relaxing atmosphere can also include doing some sensual foreplay. Get into the mood doing such activities as: massage, using sweet or spiced body lotions or oils, soft kissing, a bubble bath, and many other creative ventures.
Creating a relaxing atmosphere can also include doing some sensual foreplay. Get into the mood doing such activities as: massage, using sweet or spiced body lotions or oils, soft kissing, a bubble bath, and many other creative ventures.
Cleaning Your Anus
While you may not be thinking about it now, women who are going to receive cunnilingus should clean their anus as well as the vaginal opening. This is because the vagina and anus are extremely close together and sexual activity can easily bring harmful bacteria to enter the urethra causing an infection. Try to clean your anus thoroughly with hot, soapy water before any anal activities. A great alternative are baby wipes, in fact, a strippers technique, many people use them instead of toilet paper for clean up after any bowel movement.
She will have a very hard time climaxing even though what you are doing feels really good. A great way to help her along is to alternate by focusing on stimulating her via her g-spot if you have been stimulating the clitoris for too long. The tongue, while valiant in it's efforts will not be able to do this effectively, so you will need to get into fingering techniques, which I will cover shortly. Alternating between the clit and g-spot or stimulating them simultaneously is a often a highly effective way to bring pleasure.
While you may not be thinking about it now, women who are going to receive cunnilingus should clean their anus as well as the vaginal opening. This is because the vagina and anus are extremely close together and sexual activity can easily bring harmful bacteria to enter the urethra causing an infection. Try to clean your anus thoroughly with hot, soapy water before any anal activities. A great alternative are baby wipes, in fact, a strippers technique, many people use them instead of toilet paper for clean up after any bowel movement.
Safe Oral Sex
There
is a wide range of STDs you can get from sexual activity. At present
there is some debate about genital warts developing in the digestive
track and there is always the fear of HIV/AIDS infection. Always
think…SAFE SEX.
Dental
dams are often used in sexual situations to prevent sexually
transmitted disease for cunnilingus (oral contact with female genitals)
and analingus (oral/anal contact). They are six-inch squares of latex
and were first used by oral surgeons. This is the best protection to
prevent genital herpes infecting your lips, or a systemic yeast
infection.
Dental
dams are used by those who want to practice safer sex techniques by
placing them between your tongue and your lovers labia or anus. For
those of you who are too embarrassed to purchase one on-line or in a
store, you can always purchase a latex glove and make your own.
| Oral Sex Techniques First we are going to cover the general aspects of cunnilingus (oral sex on a female) and then we will muff dive into specifics. To begin, the picture to the right is of the outside of the vagina. Often those performing oral sex ignore the outter lips and forget that licking them, massaging them or both can be a great way to stimulate and ready her for the sexual adventure about to unfold. Using your tongue, fingers, face and sex toys are all ways to begin playing with her beautiful oyster of love. |  |
Use Your Words To Seduce
These
are the moments when you really can feel some tension if there is going
to be any... a good way to break the ice before you open her up to play
is to tell her how good she looks, smells and tastes.
| General Tips The main physical problems that women experience during oral sex when trying to climax are either that they don't feel that you are continuing to focus on the right area long enough to get them there and need you to do something repetitively, or on the contrary they feel over stimulated and are experiencing numbness and need more variation. Too Much Vs. Too Little Of A Good Thing... If you find that she is really enjoying the grand variety of techniques you are applying you are certainly going in the right direction. |
| However, if you have been changing them over a long time and she is no where close to an orgasm or she seems like she keeps getting close but can't get there; it may be because whatever technique you were doing to get her to orgasm is changing right when she feels she is going to climax and thus it causes the climax to slip away before she can reach it. Watch her breathing and verbal moans for cues as to whether she is about to orgasm. If she begins to build, stay the course and give her a chance to peak before you go to something different. Couples can agree that she help verbally when she is about to orgasm to let the performer know what to keep doing. On the other hand, if you have been doing the same technique for a while and she seems really stimulated by it but just can't seem to climax, it may be from over stimulation. If too much stimulation has been applied to the clitoris then she may find it becoming somewhat numb. |
She will have a very hard time climaxing even though what you are doing feels really good. A great way to help her along is to alternate by focusing on stimulating her via her g-spot if you have been stimulating the clitoris for too long. The tongue, while valiant in it's efforts will not be able to do this effectively, so you will need to get into fingering techniques, which I will cover shortly. Alternating between the clit and g-spot or stimulating them simultaneously is a often a highly effective way to bring pleasure.
Let Her Show You
Learn What She Prefers Clitorally
When
a woman uses a clitoral vibrator (the tool we recommend to give any
woman an orgasm quickly) she will often move it around in the beginning
to get herself worked up and then hold it in the same place for
intensity when she is ready to orgasm. All women are different as to
what they enjoy the best from how long they like it to what side of the
clitoris they prefer you stimulate so a great way to learn what she
likes beyond her telling you, is to have her use a small vibrator in
front of you (like the Waterdancer) and see what her tendencies are when it comes to pleasure.
Learn What She Prefers Vaginally
When
a woman uses a dildo (vibrating, rotating, or still) she can show you
if she likes fast, slow, varied thrusting, and if she wants to feel
stretched or simply have a lot of pressure against her g-spot. These
things are a great way to learn what she will like from your tongue,
finger, penis or sex toy for later play. I suggest this exercise of
observation as she may not even be aware of what she is doing to get
off... she may just know what feels good and not know how to verbalize
it!
How To REALLY Eat A Girl Out
Oral
sex is something lots of girls love, but rarely get because many men
just don’t know how to do it right. Here’s the truth about how to go
down on a girl!
The long and short of it is this: A tongue on her vulva
feels wonderful. Whatever your tongue does down there is almost always a
hit. That’s how powerful that thing is. What parts of the vulva do you
lick? Flick? Suck? The answer is: EVERYTHING!
Everywhere
your tongue can take you, GO! You don’t focus on a few spots, you make a
pass and provoke every single fold – she wants you to. Cover all her
bases and make one juicy woman very happy. So, you want to learn how to eat kitty? Let’s get to the trenches and be in on the action.
1. Start With Her Pubic Mound
The
mound is a wonderful area to play with. Think: grazing goat – only the
grass is black and you don’t have any horns. Go dive into her mound.
Nuzzle and glide your lips around as if you’re tickling her. Feel the
textures. Remember that with cunnilingus, both giver and receiver get sensual bombardment. Blow
onto the area and watch her shrubbery sway with every breath. Vary
breeze temperature by increasing or decreasing the size of your mouth’s
opening.
Try a playful nibble and bite.
2. Lick Around Her Large Labia (The Outer Lips)
Wet
your lips and do lip glides. Glide over her fat lips. Then, lick them
up and down – mostly up. A variation of this is moving your tongue
rapidly from side to side whilst licking up and down. If her labia
allows, perform some nibbling or munching actions. This will initiate
her into a happy rage.
3. Gently Nibble And Suck Her Smaller Labia (The Inner Lips)
If her inner-smaller lips could speak, they’d probably say, “Hey buddy, over here! Lick us, flick us, bite us… again and again.”
And
that’s what exactly you should do – lick them good, flick them good.
Use your hands to spread folds of skin and expose hidden surfaces. Then
lick those lips. Let them have it. Bite on them with your lips, then
gently tug. Stretch her labia around. Suck on them like a nipple. Bring
them into your mouth, continuing to flick while inside. These will make
her lose a little bit of composure. Alternate between licks, sucks and bites. You know you’re doing great if you hear some moaning and heavy breathing.
4. Lick Her Vaginal Opening
Make
sure this a wet and warm episode. First, lick around the vagina
opening. Then spread her and lick the exposed sides. The most sensitive
part is near the opening, so give it some good lovin’. She’ll start to
well up so let her juices flow. Can you taste that? That’s her way of
telling you she likes what you’re doing.
Lick
up and down, side to side and go around and around her vaginal opening.
Go soft, and then stiff. Use both pointed and flat tongue elements to
create combos. Suck her juice if you want to, but whatever you do, never
blow into the vagina.
Try
extending your tongue as deep as you can. But don’t worry if you can’t
venture very far, she doesn’t expect you to go frog or lizard on her.
You can use fingering to take care of those corners.
5. Hone In On Her Clitoris
The clitoris is where it’s at guys. This is home, baby!
Listen. When she’s just starting to get warmed up, you can come and go with the clitoral excitation. But, when she’s on the verge of orgasm, you don’t ever, ever leave the nest. Continue clitoral stimulation, stay with it and forget the rest of her vulva. When you want to tease a woman, you do it while she’s on the build up stage. When she’s on the verge of an orgasm (or in the middle of it), you’ll have to be the biggest jerk not to finish the job.
Listen. When she’s just starting to get warmed up, you can come and go with the clitoral excitation. But, when she’s on the verge of orgasm, you don’t ever, ever leave the nest. Continue clitoral stimulation, stay with it and forget the rest of her vulva. When you want to tease a woman, you do it while she’s on the build up stage. When she’s on the verge of an orgasm (or in the middle of it), you’ll have to be the biggest jerk not to finish the job.
Almost anything your wet tongue can do with the clitoris will feel good.
Attack
and lick the surrounding areas first. Then lick through the hood. And
when you lick the clitoral head itself, start with a flat, soft tongue.
(Later, you can operate with the stiff and pointy version and seriously
increase both speed & intensity.)
Be
creative with your lapping. To induce variety, some guys imagine
writing the Alphabet with their tongues. (It’s the tongue adaptation of
that fine art of writing your name on snow when you pee.) And while
you’re at it, “write” your age, address, heck, your whole resume, on her
pleasure center.
That
gives your tongue an assortment of combo’s. But as she’s nearing
climax, hold off the variety and give her a rapid up-&-down or
side-to-side stimulation she can count on.
Suck
on her clitoris, but don’t suck it dry, suck it wet. Slurp on it like a
baby searching for nourishment. Bring it and the surrounding area to
your mouth – giving the zone a gentle tug. Then, electrify her senses by
delivering flicking maneuvers while inside. Produce slurping sounds as
you do. Before finally releasing the clitoris from your mouth’s blissful
grip, let it pass through the smooth inner side of your lips.
THEN REPEAT.
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Cunnilingus Sex Positions
Known by many names; going down, eating out, clam chowder, and carpet munching to name a few, the art of cunnilingus is best known for an important skill to master if you want to keep your woman satisfied... and generally speaking, a satisfied woman is a faithful one!
This expose on the family of positions in which cunnilingus can be
performed should help a great deal, and make sure to check out our oral sex guide for the techniques once you are there!
Click on any position to get the full 3D Animated effect.
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 | Drive-Thru
Here's a Drive-Thru with a difference ;) Be respectful and don't forget to place your order before you chow down.
|
 | Ear Muffs
Ever heard of the three wise monkeys? Here
it is, 'See all, hear all and say nothing'. Just enjoy ... the
occasional "Mmmmmmm" will suffice :)
|
 | Eve's Ecstasy
Eve's Ecstasy is all about control, stimulation and access. While the performer lays back and chows down.
|
 | Feedbag
You can get as dirty as you like, so go
ahead; wrap a pair of legs around your muzzle and chow down. That's some
tasty feed you’ve got there!
|
 | Forbidden Fruit
A forbidden fruit recommended more than five times a day to keep the doctor away. This is a diet to die for!
|
 | Head Rush
Just hanging around; no strings attached either! There's just one question - will the blood be rushing to the head or to the...?
|
 | Licking the Flag Pole
You don't want her putting the flag to half-mast after you've finished... show her the colors and your pole might be next!
|
 | Pie in the Sky
Yummy!! Better than Momma's best baking... this one will have you salivating for more - careful with the hot gravy now!
|
 | Riding The North Face
Get a secure hold because things can change fast up there... just mind out where you put those crampons.
|
 | Riding the South Face
For those cunnilingus connoisseurs who like
to take the back country route. And if she's in the mood to go south on
you while you're exploring her territory, bonus!
|
 | Scarf
Guaranteed to warm things up... the Scarf is great for all weathers. No need for hat and gloves though - unless you're outdoors.
|
 | Spread Eagle
Help her find those thermals and she can soar with the birds! Follow her lead, don't you get greedy and dive too soon...
|
 | Suplex - Her
Wrestling purists will see that this isn't
the exact form of the move, but in the grand scheme of things, our
lovers are more than happy to be pinned to one another.
|
 | Under the Cuckoo's Nest
If you see your bird perched in this
position, don't let it fly away without paying their roost a visit.
They'll give you plenty to snack on if you burrow yourself in their
nest.
|
 | Under the Hood
Calling amateur car mechanics everywhere... this is one time you won't mind losing your dipstick!
|
 | Under the Sink
In order to get a better look at the other
partner’s plumbing, the giver's got to go down under. But if the pipes
burst, they'll have no choice but to plunge-her!
|
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Oral sex can produce intense orgasms. Find out how the mouth can be a complex, effective and sensual sexual tool…
The Mouth - The whole mouth can be used during sex, so don’t underestimate the oral cavity! Take your partner’s earlobes,lips, skin, testicles and penis into your mouth. The hot, wet, softness will be very stimulating.
The Tongue - Along
with our fingers, the tongue is the most sensitive and flexible part of
our bodies, which is why it is perfect for oral stimulation. It is
also the body’s taste receptor, which means you can both give and
receive pleasure at once, as you taste your partner’s body.
The Lips - The lips
separate the inside of the body from the outside world, so can be a
very intimate way of showing affection. From a peck on the cheek to a
deep French kiss, they play an active part in lovemaking. Not only can
they can suck, blow and caress, but they are also receptors to touch.
The meeting of two mouths is the perfect symbol, symmetry and equal
pleasure between two people.
The Teeth - In the middle of the soft, wet space of the mouth, the teeth are like
rocks in the ocean. And it’s precisely this difference which makes them
sexually useful. Use them gently to bite and nibble, but if you’re on
the receiving end, make sure you trust your partner! Resist the temptation to sink your gnashers into his soft flesh however…
Saliva - Saliva is the obvious lubricant for your kisses, and comes in handy during oral sex too. Just like the smell of a tasty dish, sexual excitement stimulates the saliva glands, so try using it as a natural lubricant during penetration.
Taste - Taste
your partner through his kisses. Does he taste salty? Sweet? Peppery?
Bitter? Smell and taste are our two most important senses, especially
when it comes to oral sex. Find out whether he’s good enough to eat as you get to know him inside and out.
Smell - This is the most primitive sense. Oral sex means you really get to know the other person’s smell and when you love someone, you usually love their particular scent as well.
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The Perineum
Behind the vulva, between the vagina and the anus is an area which is all too often ignored during sex. Don’t deprive your perineum, it loves to be stroked and touched too! It’s less sensitive than the clitoris, but some women find that the area close to the anus is extremely receptive.
Inner Thighs
Women prefer centrifugal caresses, which means they like them to start
at the edges of the body and work into the centre. Starting at the inner
thighs before finally touching the genitals is a great way to raise
your pleasure levels, so ask your partner to kiss, lick and nibble his
way around your inner thighs to your vulva, for maximum stimulation. Of
course, if he’s a foreplay expert, he’ll know this already!
The Boobies
Sucking the nipples and stimulating the breasts
is extremely pleasurable for most women. Those who claim not to feel
anything probably haven’t spent enough time with their partners
exploring their bodies. Sucking the nipples produces a orgasm hormone called ocytocin, which makes you feel good and sometimes an ejaculation of milk from breastfeeding women. Take the time to get to know your breasts with your partner.
Vaginal Opening
A mouth can kiss the vaginal opening and a tongue can slip a couple of
centimetres inside. You might not think this is enough for sexual
pleasure, but don’t be so sure! The vagina’s most sensitive areas are actually located just at the opening and don’t forget that the vagina itself is very flexible and can open and close to draw in or keep out. A whole world of possibilities…
The Vulval Lips
They contain erectile tissue which swells when you are stimulated, to
form a funnel round the vaginal opening to support an erect penis during
penetration. Often neglected, they are sexual organs like any other and can produce lots of pleasure. Don’t pass them over!
The Clit
This
is the only organ in the human body which exists purely for pleasure,
making it ideal for stimulation of all kinds, which can even produce an orgasm.
It is extremely sensitive and produces different sensations in every
woman. Some like strong pressure, while others are so sensitive that
they prefer indirect stimulation rather than direct contact. A
little-known fact is that the root of the clitoris runs in front of the pubic bone, so pressure on this area can sometimes lead to orgasm.
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Preparation For Oral Sex
Taking
a moment to clean up before oral sex is always a good idea as it can
prevent Urinary Tract Infections and make things more carefree once
done. The following are some quick tips on how to go about doing this-
Clean Your Hands
You will want to wash hands well to make sure that you do not introduce harmful bacteria into the vagina or introduce it into the urethra. This applies to both the giver and receiver as often women will play with themselves while receiving oral stimulation and they too should have clean hands.
You will want to wash hands well to make sure that you do not introduce harmful bacteria into the vagina or introduce it into the urethra. This applies to both the giver and receiver as often women will play with themselves while receiving oral stimulation and they too should have clean hands.
Avoiding A Urinary Tract Infection (UTI)
Unfortunately, there can be some negative side affects to making contact with the urethra.The urethra is sensitive and is easily irritated. It is fairly easy to expose the urethra to bacteria that is harmful and thus often results in a UTI. The activity that can cause a UTI can be sexual or non sexual. Any sexual activity that makes contact with the urethra whether it is from fingers, a sex toy, the mouth, the penis, etc. can result in painful urination and infection. To help prevent infections and reduce the chances of irritation, a woman should drink lots of water and urinate just before and right after urethral stimulation. Taking precautions such as washing whatever is going to come into contact with the urethra beforehand may assist in preventing such an infection. If an infection occurs it is easily treated with antibiotics. If left untreated the infection can become more serious and spread into the kidneys.
Unfortunately, there can be some negative side affects to making contact with the urethra.The urethra is sensitive and is easily irritated. It is fairly easy to expose the urethra to bacteria that is harmful and thus often results in a UTI. The activity that can cause a UTI can be sexual or non sexual. Any sexual activity that makes contact with the urethra whether it is from fingers, a sex toy, the mouth, the penis, etc. can result in painful urination and infection. To help prevent infections and reduce the chances of irritation, a woman should drink lots of water and urinate just before and right after urethral stimulation. Taking precautions such as washing whatever is going to come into contact with the urethra beforehand may assist in preventing such an infection. If an infection occurs it is easily treated with antibiotics. If left untreated the infection can become more serious and spread into the kidneys.
Shorten Finger Nails
Trim fingernails before going down as using fingers is common and this is done, so as to not cause pain or tears.
Trim fingernails before going down as using fingers is common and this is done, so as to not cause pain or tears.
Atmosphere
Creating a relaxing atmosphere can also include doing some sensual foreplay. Get into the mood doing such activities as: massage, using sweet or spiced body lotions or oils, soft kissing, a bubble bath, and many other creative ventures.
Creating a relaxing atmosphere can also include doing some sensual foreplay. Get into the mood doing such activities as: massage, using sweet or spiced body lotions or oils, soft kissing, a bubble bath, and many other creative ventures.
Cleaning Your Anus
While you may not be thinking about it now, women who are going to receive cunnilingus should clean their anus as well as the vaginal opening. This is because the vagina and anus are extremely close together and sexual activity can easily bring harmful bacteria to enter the urethra causing an infection. Try to clean your anus thoroughly with hot, soapy water before any anal activities. A great alternative are baby wipes, in fact, a strippers technique, many people use them instead of toilet paper for clean up after any bowel movement.
She will have a very hard time climaxing even though what you are doing feels really good. A great way to help her along is to alternate by focusing on stimulating her via her g-spot if you have been stimulating the clitoris for too long. The tongue, while valiant in it's efforts will not be able to do this effectively, so you will need to get into fingering techniques, which I will cover shortly. Alternating between the clit and g-spot or stimulating them simultaneously is a often a highly effective way to bring pleasure.
While you may not be thinking about it now, women who are going to receive cunnilingus should clean their anus as well as the vaginal opening. This is because the vagina and anus are extremely close together and sexual activity can easily bring harmful bacteria to enter the urethra causing an infection. Try to clean your anus thoroughly with hot, soapy water before any anal activities. A great alternative are baby wipes, in fact, a strippers technique, many people use them instead of toilet paper for clean up after any bowel movement.
Safe Oral Sex
There
is a wide range of STDs you can get from sexual activity. At present
there is some debate about genital warts developing in the digestive
track and there is always the fear of HIV/AIDS infection. Always
think…SAFE SEX.
Dental
dams are often used in sexual situations to prevent sexually
transmitted disease for cunnilingus (oral contact with female genitals)
and analingus (oral/anal contact). They are six-inch squares of latex
and were first used by oral surgeons. This is the best protection to
prevent genital herpes infecting your lips, or a systemic yeast
infection.
Dental
dams are used by those who want to practice safer sex techniques by
placing them between your tongue and your lovers labia or anus. For
those of you who are too embarrassed to purchase one on-line or in a
store, you can always purchase a latex glove and make your own.
| Oral Sex Techniques First we are going to cover the general aspects of cunnilingus (oral sex on a female) and then we will muff dive into specifics. To begin, the picture to the right is of the outside of the vagina. Often those performing oral sex ignore the outter lips and forget that licking them, massaging them or both can be a great way to stimulate and ready her for the sexual adventure about to unfold. Using your tongue, fingers, face and sex toys are all ways to begin playing with her beautiful oyster of love. | |
Use Your Words To Seduce
These
are the moments when you really can feel some tension if there is going
to be any... a good way to break the ice before you open her up to play
is to tell her how good she looks, smells and tastes.
| General Tips The main physical problems that women experience during oral sex when trying to climax are either that they don't feel that you are continuing to focus on the right area long enough to get them there and need you to do something repetitively, or on the contrary they feel over stimulated and are experiencing numbness and need more variation. Too Much Vs. Too Little Of A Good Thing... If you find that she is really enjoying the grand variety of techniques you are applying you are certainly going in the right direction. |
| However, if you have been changing them over a long time and she is no where close to an orgasm or she seems like she keeps getting close but can't get there; it may be because whatever technique you were doing to get her to orgasm is changing right when she feels she is going to climax and thus it causes the climax to slip away before she can reach it. Watch her breathing and verbal moans for cues as to whether she is about to orgasm. If she begins to build, stay the course and give her a chance to peak before you go to something different. Couples can agree that she help verbally when she is about to orgasm to let the performer know what to keep doing. On the other hand, if you have been doing the same technique for a while and she seems really stimulated by it but just can't seem to climax, it may be from over stimulation. If too much stimulation has been applied to the clitoris then she may find it becoming somewhat numb. |
She will have a very hard time climaxing even though what you are doing feels really good. A great way to help her along is to alternate by focusing on stimulating her via her g-spot if you have been stimulating the clitoris for too long. The tongue, while valiant in it's efforts will not be able to do this effectively, so you will need to get into fingering techniques, which I will cover shortly. Alternating between the clit and g-spot or stimulating them simultaneously is a often a highly effective way to bring pleasure.
Let Her Show You
Learn What She Prefers Clitorally
When
a woman uses a clitoral vibrator (the tool we recommend to give any
woman an orgasm quickly) she will often move it around in the beginning
to get herself worked up and then hold it in the same place for
intensity when she is ready to orgasm. All women are different as to
what they enjoy the best from how long they like it to what side of the
clitoris they prefer you stimulate so a great way to learn what she
likes beyond her telling you, is to have her use a small vibrator in
front of you (like the Waterdancer) and see what her tendencies are when it comes to pleasure.
Learn What She Prefers Vaginally
When
a woman uses a dildo (vibrating, rotating, or still) she can show you
if she likes fast, slow, varied thrusting, and if she wants to feel
stretched or simply have a lot of pressure against her g-spot. These
things are a great way to learn what she will like from your tongue,
finger, penis or sex toy for later play. I suggest this exercise of
observation as she may not even be aware of what she is doing to get
off... she may just know what feels good and not know how to verbalize
it!
Cunnilingus Sex Positions
Known by many names; going down, eating out, clam chowder, and carpet munching to name a few, the art of cunnilingus is best known for an important skill to master if you want to keep your woman satisfied... and generally speaking, a satisfied woman is a faithful one!
This expose on the family of positions in which cunnilingus can be
performed should help a great deal, and make sure to check out our oral sex guide for the techniques once you are there!
Click on any position to get the full 3D Animated effect.
| 68 - Hers
Oral Heaven - focus 100% on her while she simply relaxes - she'll thank you for it! 69 less 68... she owes you one! :)
|
| Butler
"You rang?... it's awfully dark out there ma'am, either that or this peephole needs a darn good dusting!
|
| Drive-Thru
Here's a Drive-Thru with a difference ;) Be respectful and don't forget to place your order before you chow down.
|
| Ear Muffs
Ever heard of the three wise monkeys? Here
it is, 'See all, hear all and say nothing'. Just enjoy ... the
occasional "Mmmmmmm" will suffice :)
|
| Eve's Ecstasy
Eve's Ecstasy is all about control, stimulation and access. While the performer lays back and chows down.
|
| Feedbag
You can get as dirty as you like, so go
ahead; wrap a pair of legs around your muzzle and chow down. That's some
tasty feed you’ve got there!
|
| Forbidden Fruit
A forbidden fruit recommended more than five times a day to keep the doctor away. This is a diet to die for!
|
| Head Rush
Just hanging around; no strings attached either! There's just one question - will the blood be rushing to the head or to the...?
|
| Licking the Flag Pole
You don't want her putting the flag to half-mast after you've finished... show her the colors and your pole might be next!
|
| Pie in the Sky
Yummy!! Better than Momma's best baking... this one will have you salivating for more - careful with the hot gravy now!
|
| Riding The North Face
Get a secure hold because things can change fast up there... just mind out where you put those crampons.
|
| Riding the South Face
For those cunnilingus connoisseurs who like
to take the back country route. And if she's in the mood to go south on
you while you're exploring her territory, bonus!
|
| Scarf
Guaranteed to warm things up... the Scarf is great for all weathers. No need for hat and gloves though - unless you're outdoors.
|
| Spread Eagle
Help her find those thermals and she can soar with the birds! Follow her lead, don't you get greedy and dive too soon...
|
| Suplex - Her
Wrestling purists will see that this isn't
the exact form of the move, but in the grand scheme of things, our
lovers are more than happy to be pinned to one another.
|
| Under the Cuckoo's Nest
If you see your bird perched in this
position, don't let it fly away without paying their roost a visit.
They'll give you plenty to snack on if you burrow yourself in their
nest.
|
| Under the Hood
Calling amateur car mechanics everywhere... this is one time you won't mind losing your dipstick!
|
| Under the Sink
In order to get a better look at the other
partner’s plumbing, the giver's got to go down under. But if the pipes
burst, they'll have no choice but to plunge-her!
Bob On My Knob
5 Reasons Why Men
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The largest penis in the world belongs to the blue whale
There are two kinds of penises: a grower and a shower
Smoking can decrease penis size
Globally, only 5% of men wear condoms
An emasculated man was not allowed in ancient Jewish temples
Leonardo da Vinci declared that men should be proud to show their penises
For Freud, the penis was the ultimate symbol
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